About Relationships

Have you ever wondered why a woman you have recently been dating or chatting online and was interested in you suddenly stopped returning your calls, texts or emails? Is this scenario repeating itself in your experiences with women all the time? What went wrong? Have you made a terrible dating mistake?

One of the most common mistakes guys make when having initial contacts with women they like is to share too much information about themselves. Yes, it is good to come clean right from the start, but giving away too much specific information about yourself such as your job, your interests, your life and your dreams take away all the curiosity and mystery about you and women just get bored with you and do not find you interesting anymore.

Was that what you did with the girls? Did you tell them all about yourself so that you can honestly let them know who you are? If you did, don’t do that anymore. Your intention may be noble, but attraction with women just doesn’t work that way.

Girls are weird creatures. They get exasperated when guys dump all their personal information on them as if they are your computer personal archive. Oh, of course the girls will tell you that they want a man who can come clean and tell her everything about himself, but that is her logical mind speaking, not the emotional mind which is the source of attraction.

Women want men who can heighten their curiosity and make her want to know more about him. If you are a little mysterious, it will raise her sexual tension and attraction to you. If you let in too much details about yourself, you will only bore her and you can’t bore a woman into having an interest in you, can you?

So here is the secret as to how to get women interested in you. All you need to do is to only share information about yourself that is honest and revealing, but and here is a big BUT, incomplete information. In the mass media, advertising and marketing industries, this is called the “open bracket loop”.

Take for example when you are watching television and a trailer of a movie to be screened later is on, then at the very exciting part, an announcer cuts in and says, “Who is the serial killer who may visit your home tonight? Why is he in your neighborhood? Find out tonight at 9.30 in The Terror Lurks In Your Backyard.” That’s it, that trailer had just created your curiosity to watch the movie at 9.30 to find out what happened, didn’t it?

So here is how you can use this method in the dating world. Say anything that you will usually say about yourself revealing just a little bit and then change subject to some other trivial issues to banter about.

Take for example, if you are selling cars, just say something like, “My job is to go to different places everyday by taking chauffeur driven joyrides.” The chauffeur is of course your potential client test driving the car. After saying that, switch the subject to another topic and leave her hanging there wondering what kind of interesting job is that. Now that her curiosity is piqued, she will have to ask you for more information about your occupation. You will then come across to her as mysterious, fun and interesting.

So the answer to getting girls interested in you is say it without saying it. This will raise her sexual tension to another level and you can be sure that she will be thinking about you and what you do.

This method can also be applied to all other subjects about you such as about your family, your hobbies, places you have been, sports, social matters and other interests.

Chris Chew is a relationship and dating consultant. If you are serious about getting women interested in you, then read How to get women interested in you and How to make girls want you now.

I am sure you have seen nice guys getting dumped by women and jerks getting all the girls they want. Have you ever wondered why girls are attracted to jerks who leave them heartbroken instead of nice guys who will please them? Isn’t it strange that women will ditch guys who treat them well only to go after imbecile jerks?

As a relationship consultant, I often get to listen to some guys who has had this problem. These men will usually grumble about treating their women really well, but losing her to someone else who ends up mistreating her. Isn’t that very ironical?

Well, on the face of it, this phenomenon may seem strange, but there is a reason to that. This is because nice guys are boring and jerks are exciting. If you are in the nice guy camp, don’t get all freaked out yet.

You see, a guy who is nice to a woman will usually go all out to please her, listen to her problems and hopes that one day she will want him instead of the jerk who had just left her heartbroken. Therein lies the problem.

Nice guys often deal with women in a logical manner instead of engaging her emotionally. He thus makes a great friend and since there is no emotional attraction, he remains just a friend and nothing else.

Girls are attracted to jerks because these men provide an emotional charge and sexual tension. Yes, a jerk may treat her badly and hurt her feelings, but this guy also provides excitement and emotional arousal. When with a jerk, a girl never really knows what to expect and so the excitement builds and sexual tensions take on new heights.

It has been said time again, girls are aroused more by emotions than by logic. On the logical side of it, she may say she desires to be with a nice guy, but emotionally, she is attracted to guys who can provide emotional excitement and sexual tension.

However, here is a piece of good news for nice guys and that is for every woman who has dated a jerk at some point in her lifetime, she will learn from the bad experience. She would have learnt that jerks aren’t so great after all. But and this is a big BUT, most women will still crave for that emotional charge.

This is where nice guys can come in. Be the nice compassionate guy, but this time round, be a bit more edgy so as to provide the emotional charge girls crave. In this way, you are able to provide her with the perfect balance of a nice guy and the jerk.

When you are with women, show all the qualities of a jerk such as confidence, spontaneity, social dominance and humor without being the wussy nice guy that typically repulses women. Use your flirting skills to playfully tease women, while keeping the warmth and compassion of a nice guy.

What you will be doing is to behave like her bosom buddy but at the same time, you are demonstrating the attractive qualities women want in men.

Now that you know why girls are attracted to jerks, you can use this knowledge to turn the table around and use the nice guy seduction skills discussed here to get women attracted to you in a big way!

Chris Chew is a sought after fitness consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Why girls love cocky jerks and Be more handsome and attractive

There are many types, designs and styles when it comes to wedding favors. While it may be difficult to make your choice of wedding favor at first, here’s something that can help you narrow down your search. Wedding favors specifically for your male and female guests give the impression that you really put a lot of though into selecting your favors and want to give not just any favor, but one that they will truly appreciate.

It is really a good call opting for his and her favors instead of giving favors that are the same for everyone. It shows how hands-on you are and how you really take care of every aspect of your wedding such that even the smallest details are taken care of. Here are the most popular themes when it comes to his and her wedding favors:

Themes for wedding favors for Her -

Vanity – Vanity and beauty items and products such as lip balm, combs or cute hair pins make for great favors for your female friends. Have them in pastel colors or in a lighter shade of your color motif and you’re sure to put a smile on their faces.

Health or Skin Care – Small bottles of lotion, teas or aromatherapy scents is also something that they will appreciate.

Kitchen or Baking – Many women, particularly avid cooks, will enjoy small kitchen items such as spoon or bottle openers that make for great practical favors. Themed cookie cutters are also a popular choice of favors for women. Tie colored ribbon around the cookie cutter and attach a favor tag to it. For even better presentation, enclose them in a clear box and tie the ribbon around the whole package.

Decorative favors – Crystals, photo frames and other decorations are simple favors that they can be display and remind them of the special day that you’ve had. Candles are another decorative item that comes in various shapes, sizes, and designs.

Themes for Wedding Favors for Him -

Vanity – Not just for women, but you can give light perfume or after-shave in miniature bottles that your male friends can enjoy. In fact, for couples, you can even consider doing a boxed set of his and her perfume and aftershave.

Sports and Hobbies – Sports themed items such as baseball shaped keychains or golf bag shaped cookies are great favors that will truly reflect their masculine style.

Practical – Bottle openers or cigarette lighters are useful favors for the guys. Enclose these in a clear box or insert them into a properly sized organza bag. Add a personalized imprinted ribbon for a finishing touch.

You can readily purchase these favors from your local wedding store, online bridal favors shops, and of course through your wedding coordinator. By giving his and her favors, you need not really be concerned about the cost or how elegant your wedding favor can be. The mere fact that you’ve chosen to give specifically his and her favor shows your thoughtfulness in giving favors that are personal and practical.

Criss White is a professional article writer for bridal, wedding, and various other topics. To view some wedding favors, or to get more planning tips and wedding ideas visit Bridal and Wedding Favors. Note: This article may be reprinted in your ezine, blog, or website as long as the credits remain intact and hyperlinks remain active.

Diamonds. Diamond rings for brides and wedding ceremonies.

In spite of the fact that diamonds themselves are little more than crystallized carbon , carbon being one of the most common and basic components of the earth’s globe itself , why have diamond gemstones become such a standard in our society , an expression , testament and show of love and commitment itself , when after all these gemstones are simply little more than rocks from the grounds and their it might be seen , plenty of alternative gemstones and other minerals which could well provide the same function and do the same job and effort ?

Diamonds are among the hardest substances known to mankind. The origins of the word itself are from the Greek term “Adamas”, meaning unconquerable. They were formed as a result of tremendous heat and pressure, from the time of earth’s beginning, most stones being estimated at being at least a billion years old in age, by trusted and respected gemologists in the diamond and gemstone trades as well as geologists

Diamonds overall are held to be rare. Long ago diamonds were only available in one place on earth – that was what is now the country and region of India – on the Asian subcontinent. Only the most powerful of the time period, and the most wealth could afford them – the royals and royalty itself. Thus the initial impression and the prestige afforded to these gemstones. Next overall diamonds are not only valuable they are relatively rare.

To extract each carat of diamonds – a carat of diamond weight works out generally in the ranges of one hundredth and forty two of an ounce – fully in most cases fully more than one tons of soil and rock must be dug up or mined and processed. It takes a lot of earth to be moved for that bride to have that diamond ring on her precious finger. Next in line – are the sizes of the “rocks” themselves? Most diamond gemstones found and mined are tiny overall , only the smallest and tiniest percentage and percentages – perhaps one in thirty thousand are carat sized yet never mind have any of the more special and restrictive qualities so prized in diamond trades – by jewelry and gemstones professionals themselves , never mind brides , groom , their family and the wedding parties themselves.

These stats and statistics comprise on reason, and one of the reasons why diamonds are so valuable, so treasured and cost what they do in the jewelry and precious gemstones marketplace and mark places of the United Sates and the world. Another reason and reasons are the delicate, precise and special cutting process. Generally more than half of the diamond is lost when “cutters” fashion that rough stone into that beautiful gem – of great value and intrinsic beauty. First a “bruter” determines the basic shape of the stone itself. The “bruter” is he person most familiar with “rough diamonds” and the best way and ways to obtain fully maximum size and beauty in the final outcome and outcomes.

When the “bruter” is finally done his work, and completed the full process, the next gemstones professional in line a “blocker” works to “round” out the entire piece? Then the “brillianteer” will strive to add the “facets “that will give the diamond its “fire” and “brilliance”. The bruter and blocker must each and together as members of the jewelry trades professional team to get the most from the diamond gemstone while following scientifically determined proportional guidelines. The simplest least slightest of miscalculation may leave that valuable and precious diamond looking dull and simply lifeless. The brillianteer must ensure that all “facets” (58 in the traditional round brilliant cut” line up most perfectly or risk losing the fire that makes a diamond and diamonds so very special.

Each and every diamond gemstone involved in the diamond selection, cutting and polishing process is so special, most unique, one of a kind and even rarer. Each has its own special life, history and traits. Thus it is no secret that diamonds grace the hands of beautiful women around the globe, and across all cultures and families.

Amy U. Goodman
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Posted: November 6th, 2011
Categories: Marriage
Tags: beauty, diamond, diamonds, Family, jewelry, marketing, retail, wedding, woman, Women
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If you have browsed through dating websites, you will come across many “pick up girls gurus” telling you that women don’t give a heck about a man’s physical appearance? They are not attracted to good looking handsome men per se but through their personalities. Do you believe that?

Well, to me looks do not matter much to women if you are talking about long term relationships that have already been well established. However, when it comes to meeting women for the first time, then good looks and good physical impressions certainly counts a mighty lot for mutual attraction!

You see, during the first encounter between a man and a woman, both parties place exactly the same amount of influence on the looks of each other. This is only natural.

I mean, if you are in the vicinity of girls, your attention will certainly be drawn to the hottest girl there, won’t it? So the less attractive girls will usually be an after thought, wouldn’t they?

Believe it or not, the same goes for women and be warned, if you are meeting a girl for the first time, she will definitely care about the way you look. I mean, after all, the girl do not know anything about you or your personality since both of you have just met, it naturally goes on to say that the only thing that you can impress her and get her wanting to know you more is your looks and appearance, isn’t it?

Now this will mean that both men and women use looks as an initial means of evaluating each other. This is indisputable at this point in time during the first meeting. After all, this is a subconscious process that happens every time you or she is meeting someone new.

Okay, to be fair to others who say that girls are not attracted by good looks and good impressions because once the girls get to know you better, they will be less influenced by your looks and start to notice your personality and whether you have that X factor.

This is thus why most average looking guys fail to get past the first stage of being acquainted with women well enough until looks do not play a dominant factor anymore in female attraction. So for most of us, the irony is that we just can’t simply get past that “first impression” with women if we aren’t that good looking!

Hey, if you agree with me earlier, you will know that a girl judges you based on the way you look and then whoosh, most of the time she is not keen because she has already had many better looking guys drooling over her and she knows that particularly if she is a beautiful girl. She simply has too many good cherries to pick when it comes to guys. Simple law of supply and demand.

Put it this way, if you are standing in line at a grocery store and a beautiful girl is ahead of you in the checkout line and you’ve got only a minute to talk to her, how on earth can you possibly show her that you are a fabulous guy and that you can be the best boyfriend in the world? She is certainly not going to give you the time or any chance at all if she does not at least find you to be at least mildly attractive or somewhat handsome, wouldn’t she?

On the other hand, guys tend to continue to place a lot of emphasis on how a woman looks even after they get to know her well. Guys like to be with hot chicks, as simple as that. Women are much more likely to date a not so good looking guy if she already knows him well and loves his personality. But you can rarely find good looking guys dating not so attractive women unless they want something else from them.

The bottom line is this, you don’t have to have a handsome movie star looks or be a mesmerizing handsome hunk to have the initial attraction with women. Women are realistic too. You only need to be somewhat good looking so that you can get past the first encounter for the chance to show your great personality. If you can get past that stage, she will stop caring how you look all that much.

If you are an average Joe, don’t worry guys, all is not lost. I am sure you have seen those makeover photographs, right? You have seen how those people can groom themselves so well until their looks are totally transformed, haven’t you? Well, do what they did!

If you are overweight, lose weight and if you are underweight, go to the gym and put on some muscles. Change your wardrobe with more fashionable clothing and accessories. Visit your local aesthetician to clear up the blemishes or pigmentation on your face and so on and so forth. There are simply many things which you can do to become good looking and attractive to girls to get past the first hurdle! Just do it!

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Become Handsome And Goodlooking and Be Sexually Attractive With Pheromone Sprays

Many men are either too shy or are at a loss at how to pick up girls successfully and when the occasion arises, they fumbled at the attempt. Some men and women even think that “picking up girls” is morally wrong.

Whichever category you belonged to, it is your mindset that traps and fails you in approaching women. Why not think of it this way, instead of thinking about picking up girls, why not think of it as making new friends. So what is morally wrong or stifling in approaching girls to make friends? With this new mindset, you will be more at ease when approaching women and starting a conversation.

The art of picking up girls is a skill that can be easily learnt by almost any man unless of course you are not interested in girls. Picking up women or rather making friends with them is not offensive to women at all. As a matter of fact, most women who are attached were picked up by their partners and are happy to be so.

So let’s examine the skills of picking up girls. Before starting out, set your mind to think like a pick up artist. Visualize that you are a success in making friends with women. Concentrate on one goal and one single goal alone, and that is you are on a mission to pick up girls and as such you must ignore what women think of you.

By conditioning your mind on this focused objective, you will be able to move on easily even after being rejected. Take every rejection as a step moving closer to success as the acceptance of you is bound to come when you persist. Who knows, your first attempt may already be successful and if not, so what, it could be your next attempt. If you don’t even try, you will never get.

Approaching and picking up women can be fun and so try to have fun when attempting to pick up girls. Remember, your single focus is to make friends with women and thus you should not bother bout women’s perceptions and opinions regarding your approach. This is because the more you worry about these imagined fears, the more your confidence level will drop will make you fumble foolishly in your valiant attempt.

As you begin to approach a woman, you must already have a subject of conversation in mind. You should know what you are going to talk about, how to tease and flirt with her and how to have a good time. In other words, you must have a well rehearsed battle plan ready.

When you have a plan ready, you will be more confident in your approach after establishing eye contact with your target. Remember, girls are attracted to confident men and when you attempt to start a conversation which is carefully rehearsed, you will be more confident and thus your success with girls will be extremely high because you will not make the mistakes of guys who approached girls without any prepared plans.

So picking up girls successfully is easy because most girls are expecting to be picked up anyway. So when you are confident and have a good plan in hand, what makes you think that you can’t be a successful pick up artist?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Pick Up Girls Without Lines and Are Girls Attracted To Handsome Men

Guys, let me ask you a simple question. To be attractive to women and to make the girls love you, you have to be sensitive to them, call them everyday to express your admiration for them, shower them with flowers and gifts and take them out to swanky romantic restaurants for candlelight dinners if you can afford it, right?

Wrong! You see, if you ask any girl what type of men they like to be their boyfriend, they will say more or less the same as in my question. If that is the case, then why do we see nice guys getting dumped all the time and the nonchalant guys who are somewhat insensitive to girls or some people may even call these guys jerks get all the girls?

If you have read my earlier articles, you will know that girls are not attracted to men by logic. Logically, they will want nice guys to bring them flowers who take them to fancy dinners or guys who pander up to them and whispering sweet nothings all the time.

However, in reality, women are governed by their instincts to find men who can give herself and her offspring security and survivability. In other words, they are attracted to the alpha male who is the confident leader of the pack and as such the real manly man.

So what is the alpha male and what makes them so attractive to the girls? Why do girls fall in love with these guys so easily? Well, to put it simply, they are the guys who do not or rarely do what other men do that was described above. These are the guys who do not usually call his girl, but have the girls calling him naturally. These are the same guys who rarely if ever buy their girlfriends presents and flowers and these are the guys who have girls falling all over for them. These are the alpha males who get all the girls where nice guys fail.

If you want to be attractive and successful to women, then you must pick up some of the characteristics of these guys. So why are alpha males so irresistibly attractive to women? The following are just some of the alpha male traits which you may wish to emulate.

One of the most basic reasons women are attracted to alpha males is the evolutionary instinct and that is the ability to stay alive and produce offspring. Women want babies and want the best genes to be passed on to them to ensure the survivability of the human race. Therefore, they are instinctively attracted to the manliest of the males to produce strong healthy babies.

This is one big reason why women are attracted to confident men and confidence is another alpha male trait. Women want to choose men who can protect them and their families from all the dangers of the world and it goes to say that low self-confident men may not meet up to the requirements of this department. On the other hand, men who knew their strength and took pride in their accomplishments will be the natural selection for this criterion, right?

This is why alpha males seem to have their pick of attractive women because so many attractive women want them and because of this, even more women are attracted to them because if so many women are attracted to this man, then he must be a good catch. You may think that that is an irrational thinking, then I did point out that a woman’s attraction to a man is not logical, didn’t I? Oh, how I love to emphasize this point.

There are many more desirable traits of the alpha male to be mentioned here. So if you want to be a chick magnet and have women climbing all over you and falling in love with you, don’t you think it is time to learn how to be an alpha male?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Be A Confident And Attractive Man and Alpha Males Sexual Appeal

Do you know that about 70% of your communication comes through your body language instead of your words? This definitely means that body language do play a big part when it comes to flirting and seducing women.

You can say the most wonderful things, but if your body language is wrong, no woman will be attracted to you. So it is very important to pay careful attention to your body language instead of just thinking what to say.

If you just want to wax lyrical about yourself or her, then stay in internet chatrooms so that the other party can’t see your smiles, postures or eye contact except thru your emoticons or webcams. Even so, if both of you are interested in each other, sooner or later you will get to meet up, isn’t it? So here are some tips for you to polish up your seductive body language.

Nothing is more sexy and seductive than establishing eye contact. If you maintain eye contact, it shows that you are confident and girls find confident men irresistible.

So when talking to a woman you want to flirt and seduce, try to maintain eye contact. However, do gaze away and glimpse at other things now and then because too much eye contact can be rather intimidating.

Eye contact can make serious connections within people and as the saying goes, the eyes are a window to the soul. So maintain eye contact for about 60% of the duration of the conversation.

Now, don’t commit this big mistake by looking or worse, staring at her chest. Yes, I know guys are naturally attracted to what is there, and naturally the eyes tend to dart to her bosom. Don’t do it because it will make you look just like all the other guys. So resist the temptation.

You see, if she is very pretty and has a well endowed bosom, a lot of men cannot resist taking peeps there and she knows it. As such you will come across as a gentleman and not like all other lecherous men she knows.

Next, be generous with your smiles. No, don’t fake it as unnatural smiles can be very easily detected. Remember, girls are more intuitive than men.

You smile often to make her feel at ease and comfortable with you. You want to portray that you are a friendly and fun guy to be hanging around with especially when have just met her for the first time.

You also need to project the image of you as a confident man who is comfortable around women. A genuine smile is very effective in making the other party feel friendly towards you. Go on, try smiling at people randomly and you will be surprised by how many people actually smile back at you.

Check your posture. Psychologically, girls are attracted to men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the male movie and pop stars girls go crazy over and one very distinctive common feature these men have are their upright postures.

This is the alpha male posture which says that you are confident, healthy, and strong. Thus have a good posture is a very positive body language. Furthermore, a good posture is healthy to your back as well and takes the stress off your spine.

There are many more body language techniques you can use to flirt and seduce women, but these few will be good enough to begin with.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Using Body Language To Flirt And Seduce and Pheromone Sexually Attract Girls

This article about dating girls may be controversial to some people, but read on and see if it is true. Of course you are entitled to your own opinion about what women are really looking for in men. But keep an open mind.

Go ahead. Just as any woman what she is really looking for in their ideal man and she will probably tell you that she wants a nice guy who will buy her flowers often, remembers her birthday, listen to her problems and are really nice to her. Not surprising right?

That is why many men end up becoming that guy she talks about. The same nice guy that girls talk to about their problems, but the relationship usually does not take off any further than being just mere friends. So if it does not workout this way, then what is the problem?

Ok, it is true that women are not lying when they say they want these things as this is only logical. But if you have read my previous articles, you will know that girls don’t logically choose who and what they are attracted to. They have no logical choice, they go by instincts and emotions when picking their ideal man.

The truth is that although women want a man who will buy them flowers and talk to them when they are down, in reality, when it comes down to choosing their ideal man, they instinctively want someone who can take control and act like a man should, not just merely a nice goody two shoes who brings her flowers and take her to swanky restaurants.

Women want real confident men, men who are always in control and don’t ask their permission to do things. Girls being girls don’t want to be in charge, they want their men to be in charge of them. Are you baffled now? Ok, I will clear the cobwebs with some examples.

Did you ever notice that when you give a woman some compliments like telling her how beautiful she is, the most you can get is just a smile and nothing more? But when you notice only a slight flaw about her, she will be all over you wanting to know more and is more serious in the conversation?

Have you also noticed that when you send her flowers and treats her to fancy dinners frequently, she will still be seeing other guys? That means that she is not treating you as the special one. That is why guys always lament that why women take them for granted when they are so nice to the girls.

On the other end of the scale, if you simply just buy her a drink and act like you are more dominant, she will be attracted to you, because you are not scampering to her every need. Not convinced?

Ok, how about this example. When you often call her and ask for dates, she seems to be avoiding your calls and act a bit distant. However, when you stop calling her so often and act nonchalantly, she will be the one calling you non stop. Isn’t this true most of the time?

The real reason is that most women don’t want to be always catered to or spoilt. They may like it from other men, but not their ideal man. Their ideal man is a strong and confident man. In other words, he must be a real man who can stand up on his own and not always groping around to please her like a wimp.

Women want their man to lead the way, not the other way around. They want a leader who does not ask her what she wants him to do. That means that she sees leadership qualities in such men and after all, they are looking for someone who can be in charge of her household and her brood in the future. So they are instinctively looking for a husband material rather than merely someone weaker who submits to her, buys her flowers and treats her like a princess.

Do you see the contradiction? That is why men are always confused and are at a lost as to what girls really want in a man. Now, what do you think?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at What Are Girls Thinking About You and Perfect Male Body Attractive To Girls

We all know that alpha males are very attractive to women. They are like the leader of an animal pack where the females love and respect. In a civil society like ours, the alpha male is the leader that the others follow.

An alpha male, whether consciously or unconsciously understand what women want and are able to fulfill their desires. He knows the art of commanding women’s attention and is a master of seduction flirt. Therefore if you want to succeed with women, you should learn how to become an alpha male.

Becoming a girl magnet, you have to learn and master the art of seduction flirt such as using the correct body language, knowing the best conversation openers and being confident and relaxed around women. In other words, you must believe in yourself.

A true blue alpha male is not concerned with the opinions of other people about himself. He knows what he is doing and gets whatever he wants. He is full of energy, yet calm and confident and shows it in his aura. That is his magical allure with girls.

The more you believe you are the alpha male, the more you become one as believe in yourself is a magnificent attribute girls find irresistible. It may take some effort and time to learn and cultivate the habits, but it will come as you persistently do it often enough. Women become extremely submissive to the alpha male because these guys have gained the respect of women.

So the first thing you should do then is to display the body language of alpha males everywhere you go and in all situations. You don’t do this only in the presence of women because you want to let it become your nature.

So what is the body language do alpha males display to make them so attractive to women? Well, you can start with having a great posture. You may even want to enroll in a deportment class if you are weak in this department.

Next, be relaxed and confident as if you are in control of all situations. This shows that you have everything under controlled. Women love men who are confident and in controlled because it gives them a sense of security. That is why girls are in awe with alpha males. A picture paints a thousand words and that is why body language is so important.

Have complete confidence when you approach a woman and she will respond favorably to you. If you are hesitant or shy, girls will sense your vibes as women are much more intuitive than men. So if you are not confident in approaching her, you will be immediately be categorized in her mind as a beta male which is a weak wussy man who is not a “potential lover” material.

Women love men with a healthy sense of humor. So be a funny guy and have the confidence to hold peoples attention. When you do that, you are displaying your leadership quality subtlely and women can detect that and be impressed with you although they may not even know why.

So if you want to get the girls and leave the other guys far behind, then learn how to be an alpha male and you will be a natural chick magnet.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Become An Attractive Confident Man and Alpha Males Have More Sex