What makes a wedding ceremony special? It is the most awaited ceremony for the couple to be wed since this day is when they take their vows to spend the rest of their lives together. It is also one of the few occasion when the people who matter most to the couple come together, all looking their best, to show their support and share in the couple’s happiness.
Many people are involved in the wedding from the initial pre-wedding preparations to the actual wedding day celebration. The bride can go crazy if she tries a one-woman show on this one. The parents of both the bride and the groom, the couple’s immediate family members and relatives and the friends who have been wonderful witnesses to the beautiful love that the couple has shared before finally deciding to become husband and wife, will all be there ready to help them make this day extra special.
The couple gets to choose among their closest friends who their bridesmaids and groomsmen will be. These people will play important roles during the wedding as they have always done in the past. Usually, the wedding entourage will be composed of the couple’s best friends or siblings.
What better way to show the couple’s appreciation to friends who have shared their time than to give gifts they could keep? For example, bridesmaids would be delighted to receive jewelry boxes where they could keep important items. For the groomsmen, exquisite cigar boxes and engraved money clips will be good choices, although a common favorite, which also adds a more elegant touch, is a nice pair of groomsman cufflinks.
Groomsman cufflinks are unique and decorative fasteners that hold together two sides of the cuffs. These are a classy alternative to buttons or to the ribbons being used a long time ago. They have a basic design of two cylindrical posts with a decorative end visible to the public. They can be worn either ‘kissing’ (with the ends pinched together), or ‘barrel-style’ with one end overlapping the other. Of the two, the ‘kissing’ cuffs are usually preferred. It is usually engraved with special notes or messages to give the cufflinks a more personalized look. The materials used in groomsman cufflinks can vary from silver to leather to those having precious stones.
Cufflinks date back to the 17th century. French cufflinks, which comes as a result of European influences to America, are now becoming a popular trend. The French “cuff links” are used on French cuffs, one where the material is folded back onto itself and held together by a French cuff or silk knot. A French cufflink offers a more elegant and fashionable look than the standard cufflink.
There are probably a lot more ideas for traditional groomsmen gifts. While these are certainly just a few ideas, be sure that you spend time contemplating the importance of this gift. You just have to pick the one that best fits your recipient’s personal taste and personality. With all the choices now available, there surely is a special gift that will fit each groomsman perfectly!
Whether your interests are in silver, gold, artistic, sports, or other theme-related cufflinks we’ve got you covered. Cufflink Aficionado carries a broad range of men’s silver cufflinks designed to meet each connoisseur’s individual style and interest. Our selection of wedding cufflinks are sure to top off that perfect look.
So, you buckled over and got your girlfriend that engagement ring she’s been pestering you about since your seventh date. Of course, back then, she was more subtle – so, do you see us being together and so, do you want to get married?
Now, though, six years into the relationship, she was not all sweetness and light about her long wait to become Mrs. You. By this time, she’d picked out the ring, called you her fiance to anyone she could, and grumbled incessantly about her biological clock and how her mother was right about all the cow and free milk stuff that she used to pooh-pooh.
Congratulations! You’re engaged!
As luck would have it, you’re the groom. Have you noticed how much easier all this wedding stuff is – a snap, really – since you realized that, Hey, I’m a guy! If your girl is the traditional bride – and most of them are pretty traditional when it comes to realizing that Barbie moment once and for all – you have virtually nothing to do.
That doesn’t mean that you won’t be asked to make a decision. Or many. You will look at everything from cakes to tablecloths to flowers, and Your Pookie will require an answer from you.
The best way to get the answer right is to say, “So, what are you envisioning here? Hmmm…which cake best gets that idea across? What are your thoughts?”
Whatever her thoughts are, echo them. Tell her often that her good taste was part of what attracted you to her in the first place, and you really place your trust in these matters in her capable and slender hands.
That’s one thing off your plate.
You also have to pick out the wedding ring. In the olden days, a guy would choose a ring – engagement and wedding, or the ubiquitous bridal set – and the girl would say yea or nay, and that was that. The woman is more involved now in the whole picking-out process, but it’s still up to you to foot the bill. And really, if you can’t foot the bill, it’s highly unlikely that you should be getting married.
That doesn’t mean that it’s not okay to tell Your Beloved that you can afford This Group of Rings over Here, and none of them Over There. You can be subtle, by having the rings already laid out to be presented to her, if she’s not a gold digger looking for a rock the size of her original breasts. God forbid she’s looking for one the size of the new ones!
If she is a gold digger and you’re not in the position of financing her whims, you need to do two things. First, always know the name of a good divorce lawyer, because it’s not going to last. If she’s marrying for money and you don’t have any, you’re just a train depot on the way to the Promised Land.
Second, you must bribe the jeweler. Tell him that he must say that only strippers wear stones that large, and that the society ladies always go for a smaller, quality stone in good taste. Most gold diggers are also wannabe social climbers, and this will enable you to spend your money in the way you want without having to listen to pouting and spouting for the rest of your engagement.
Your parents are expected to throw the rehearsal dinner, but if you’ve been working for more than two years, they may expect you to foot the cost for that. Really good restaurants often have affordable menus for large parties and very nice private rooms – look into that option, because it will prove cheaper in the long run than a hotel with its really high liquor and service costs or a venue in which you have to bring in a caterer and rent tables, chairs, plates, and the works. If you choose someplace trendy and stylish, the only thing you’ll have to do for decoration is buy your fiance a nice wedding gift – and you have to do that, anyway.
Another groom output requirement is the honeymoon. This can be big or small, depending on your circumstances and both of your work schedules. You can go and luxuriate in the fine hotels of Europe or you can go to the Pocono’s and have a private hot tub party in a heart-shaped Jacuzzi or one shaped like one of those saucer champagne glasses. Be sure to include Your Darling in the planning, or you’ll get pouting and spouting, and she will also buy all the wrong clothes for her long-planned, much-anticipated wedding trip.
Lastly, it’s your job to buy gifts for your groomsmen. Traditionally, these gifts have ranged from silver flasks (which could lead to DUI arrests), fine handkerchiefs with the initials embroidered (snot receptacles), silver or leather boxes (confiscated by the ex-wife or ex-girlfriend during the next breakup), tie clips (out of style since about 1978), silver pens (run out of ink and then sit in a drawer for 45 years), and cufflinks.
Cufflinks for your groomsmen are like earrings or bracelets for the bridesmaids – the perfect gift. It gives you partial control over their accessories for the day – you’ve already told them what to wear on most of their other body parts – and classes up the whole joint, whether it’s the downtown cathedral or the chapel on the Strip. Traditionally, cufflinks have been engraved with the wedding date and the bride’s and groom’s initials.
I have to say that I abhor this tradition. To me, it’s tantamount to making each groomsman a T-shirt that says I Was Bob and Jill’s Groomsman. In other words, something that no one ever wears again.
It’s not necessary to print your initials and wedding date all over a gift to someone else. You don’t do that for other gift-giving opportunities, and really, a gift is not about you: it’s about your appreciation for all they’ve done for you and a token of your very great esteem for them. They’ll remember that you gave them the gift, and they’ll know the reason for the gift. They aren’t monkeys, dammit.
With that in mind, consider buying cufflinks with each groomsman’s own initials engraved on them. The groomsman can wear those engraved cufflinks for any number of special events – after wearing them to your nuptials, of course. They will be perfect for work or for weddings, for the christening of you children and testifying in your very unlikely divorce trial.
In other words, they will be an investment gift.
Other options for cufflinks include silk knots or enameled cufflinks in your wedding colors. Paired with a tie in the same hues (which should also be your gift), this is another gift that can be used again and again. If nothing else, the groomsman will be grateful not to go have to pick out a beautiful tie on his own.
Lastly, if you want to really personalize your gift, choose a variety of cufflinks that capture each groomsman’s individuality. This could be with a choice of styles relating to professions, hobbies, or preferred university. After all, even at the wedding, your guests are only going to see your very stylish and satisfied groomsmen standing next to the frankly terribly bridesmaid dresses – and the differences in the cufflinks will be a nice little surprise, a stylish touch, as if you, and not your New Wife, had been the one with Good Taste all along.
Whether your interests are in silver, gold, artistic, sports, or other theme-related cufflinks we’ve got you covered. Cufflink Aficionado carries a broad range of groomsman wedding cufflinks designed to meet each individual’s style and interest. Our selection of engraved cufflinks are sure to top off that perfect wedding look for that perfect day!
I love a tuxedo as next as the much person, but it is not the only option for wedding attire for a groom. Unless the wedding is to be very formal, in the spring and summer months, it can be so much more fresh and modern to lighten things up a bit. Enter the khaki suit: appropriate for an elegant daytime wedding yet perfectly in style for the season, it can be an excellent alternative to either a tuxedo or a traditional navy suit. These are some ideas on how to style khaki suits for the groom and his groomsmen.
One of the fantastic things about a khaki suit for a groom is that it is both classic and fresh at the same time. It also feels more celebratory than a business-like navy or charcoal suit, which is ideal for a wedding. Being a light colored neutral, you will also find that a khaki suit allows you to be as expressive as you want with the rest of the groom’s attire, including his shirt, tie, boutonierre or pocket square, and cufflinks.
A spring garden wedding is a wonderful place for a khaki suit. Instead of a basic white shirt, why not have the men in the wedding wear shirts in a pastel color? Pale blue is always handsome, or select a shirt color which coordinates with the wedding colors. Light yellow shirts are very springy and surprisingly neutral. A discreet pattern on the groom’s shirt, such as a tiny gingham check would be a marvelous addition.
A great idea for a tie for a garden wedding would be one with a small floral print, such as a Liberty floral. It would look fresh and springlike with a khaki suit and light colored shirt. If your groom will not go for a floral print, a small print in a motif which appeals to him could be nice, such as a green and white golf design. Keep the rest of the accessories simple, such as a classic pair of silver monogrammed cufflinks (these also make great groomsmen gifts). A cheerful daisy boutonierre would be a great finishing detail.
In the summer, khaki suits are perfect for nautical themed weddings. What could be more crisp and classic than khaki paired with navy and bright white? For a dash of color, mix in subtle accents of lime green or red. Starting with the shirts, pair the khaki suits with either a pure white or an elegant French blue. Embrace the nautical theme with anchor or sailboat cufflinks, which are not only terrific gifts for groomsmen, but also for the groom himself. Select a tie which either has diagonal stripes or a discreet nautical print. Motifs like anchors, ships’ wheels, knots, or whales are just a few appropriate tie motif ideas (check out places like Vineyard Vines for great looking options).
If your groom likes strong colors, another great look for a khaki suit is to pair it with a sherbet color for a casual summer wedding. Try a mango or pale lime shirt with a crisp finish, which would be ideal for a wedding with an orange or green theme. Another option is to stick with a basic white shirt, but let your groom have fun wearing a tie in his favorite color, whether it is a summery turquoise or a deep purple. When the wedding is informal, you may consider substituting a decorative pocket square for a more traditional boutonierre.
With so many ways to wear one, the khaki suit is really the go-to look for spring and summer grooms. Handsome but not stuffy, the khaki suit is the perfect compromise between wanting to look polished, yet summery. Best of all, unlike a tuxedo, the suit will become a versatile part of his wardrobe for the future.
Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, fashion, and etiquette. Visit us at http://silverlandjewelry.com/ for an incredible selection of groomsmen gifts that your guys will love.
There are plenty of gifts which are involved in a wedding. There are presents for the bride and groom, shower gifts, presents from the bride and groom, and even favors for the guests. All of this back and forth of gifts can pose some questions about what is “proper” behavior for both donors and recipients. Wonder no more! This definitive guide to wedding gift etiquette will clear up all the debate once and for all.
The majority of the wedding related gifts will be flowing to the bride and groom, so let’s begin with those. First of all, no one is technically required to give a present to the happy couple, not even if they are attending the wedding. Surprised? Don’t be; if you think about it, if each guest was obligated to offer something of value to the bride and groom, it would essentially be like charging them an admission fee to the wedding. I did say, technically, however and although no one is obligated to give a wedding gift, it is customary to do so if you are close enough to the couple to attend their wedding. Guests who do not plan to join in for the festivities can simply send a note wishing the couple all the best, although of course they may send something more substantial if they choose.
The next important point of etiquette is that the bride and groom may not tell anyone what type of gift to give them, and they must fake joy upon receiving even the most heinous present. It is perfectly fine to create a bridal registry so that guests who want some guidance will have a resource. That said, no one is ever obligated to shop from the couples’ wish list, and it is truly a rude bride who would turn her nose up at “unapproved” gifts. The bridal registry information may appear on the wedding website and can be offered in response to a direct question, but should never, ever be included in the wedding invitation!
When a wedding guest is shopping for a gift, certain rules of etiquette and common sense apply to them as well. For one thing, while they need not shop off the bridal registry, they should give some thought to what items would please the newlyweds, and what they might find useful. A complete set of pots and pans, for instance, would delight the budding chef, but might actually be insulting to your niece the take-out queen (be wary of any wedding present which might seem to carry a secret message, as in: isn’t it high time you learned to cook, missy?). Wedding gifts should be elegant, but there is no obligation to spend beyond your means. One thing that many people do not realize is that presents should be sent directly to the bride’s home, never carried to the wedding. This prevents issues of lost cards, damaged gifts, or Heaven forbid, theft from the reception site (sad to say, it happens).
Now for the gifts which the bride and groom give. Chief among these will be presents for their attendants. Under no circumstances, no matter how tight the wedding budget, is is acceptable to neglect giving thank you gifts to bridesmaids and groomsmen. Choose what you can afford, and make it something special. Customary bridesmaid gifts include jewelry and engraved silver items. If choosing bridesmaid jewelry gifts, try to match the pieces to the taste of the recipients, even if it means selecting a different item for each woman within the same price range.
Last, but never least, is showing proper gratitude. Any gift received deserves a prompt handwritten note, period. There is an incorrect notion floating around that since guests theoretically have up to a year to send a wedding gift (why wait so long?), that there is the same leeway for thank you notes, which is absolutely untrue. All notes should be mailed within a month, maximum, and two to three weeks ideally, and they must be written by hand. Thank you notes may be brief, but they should be personalized for the gift and donor, and they should always be gracious, even if the present was not pleasing. Showing the proper appreciation for wedding presents is a fantastic way to make a great impression on your friends, family, and especially your new family-in-law.
Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, etiquette, and style. Thank your attendants with beautiful bridesmaid jewelry gifts from http://silverlandjewelry.com/. As our gift to you, all jewelry orders over $99 receive free shipping.
These days, many weddings are really weekend long events, rather than a single afternoon. There are numerous types of activities which a bride and groom may wish to plan, from the standard rehearsal dinner, to after parties, to golf outings. Take a look at this list of pre-wedding events and decide which ones to include in your own wedding weekend.
For some couples, the wedding fun actually begins a couple of days before they say their “I dos” when friends and family start to roll into town. Thursday afternoon before a Saturday wedding can be a good time to start the scheduled festivities. That would be a good time for the bride to host a ladies’ luncheon in honor of her bridesmaids and the mothers of the bride and groom. It is usually a tea or lunchtime affair which the bride throws in a cute little restaurant or inn to thank all the women who have helped her with her wedding. This is a good time to give the bridesmaids their gifts (wedding jewelry is the favorite), and to present any special pieces of jewelry which the bride and groom have selected for their mothers as wedding presents.
Thursday afternoon is also a great time for some pre-wedding pampering for all the ladies in the wedding. A few hours at the spa getting manis, pedis, and massages is sure to get everyone feeling relaxed and ready for the big day. Just skip the facial, as it is too close to the wedding, should there be a bad reaction. This would also be a good time for the groom to spend some bonding time with his attendants. No, we are not talking bachelor party (it is best to get that out of the way several weeks before the wedding day), but something like a golf outing would be a great idea.
Of course, the day before the wedding is the usual time to hold the wedding rehearsal, followed by the rehearsal. Before the rehearsal, the bride should also take some time that morning to make sure that she has everything she will need for her wedding awaiting her at the place where she plans to dress for the wedding (if possible). This would include everything from her gown, bridal veil, wedding jewelry, shoes, and undergarments to makeup and her going away outfit. By the way, if a large percentage of your guest list will be traveling in from another town for your wedding, it would be nice to opt for a wedding welcome party instead of a rehearsal dinner. The only difference is that all guests are welcome, instead of a select few. It is a nice gesture to all those who have gone to great effort to attend your wedding.
If you have a lively crowd attending your rehearsal dinner or wedding welcome party, you may wish to plan an after party. This is a great time for the younger guests to go out dancing and have a fun night together. The after party can take place at someone’s home, a club, or a restaurant. Some after parties are spontaneous and others are pre-planned. If you do decide to throw a late night bash the evening before the wedding, there are two important tips to keep in mind. First of all, arrange for transportation to make sure that everyone makes it home safely, and second of all, the bride should probably sit this party out. You might be disappointed to miss out on the late night revelry, but you will sure be glad you got your beauty sleep when you wake up feeling refreshed on the morning of your wedding!
Finally, there is the wedding morning. When the ceremony does not begin until the late afternoon or evening, many couples plan activities for the early part of the day. Popular ideas include private yoga classes, golf outings, or sightseeing tours. Just be sure to end any wedding morning events in plenty of time for your guests to get changed and make it to the church on time!
Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, society, and fashion. At http://silverlandjewelry.com/, we offer an exquisite collection of wedding jewelry for every member of the wedding party. All jewelry orders over $99 receive free shipping.
Choosing your best man is probably one of the toughest decisions you have to make. The moment you announced that you’re getting married, surely all of your close friends are expecting to be asked. The tension is building up as your big day gets near, and you just want to get it done as smoothly as possible. You don’t want to make a rash decision either since your best man plays a big role in the success of your wedding. You have to put some serious thought in choosing your best man. To make it easier for you, I came up with the list of things to consider in choosing your best man.
He should live near you.
Your best man should be present in most stages of the wedding preparation. He should attend all the pre-wedding parties, he should initiate in helping you with small tasks like renting your tuxedoes, and he should be there drinking with you when you start to get cold feet. If he lives 500 miles away, it will be difficult to get his tasks done. I know you have always pictured your best friend to be the one fixing your tie and patting your back on the most important event of your life, so you should consider the distance he needs to travel to help you on you big day.
He should be responsible.
This is the main characteristic that you should look for in your best man. You do not want to be the one who keeps reminding your best man of the deadlines and things he should do, do you? That would appear like you are demanding too much. You are the busy guy and he should have the initiative to offer help in whatever aspect he can to make it easier for you. Plus, the guy will be holding the ring for you on your wedding. That would be stressful for you if you know you cannot rely on your best man be well organized.
He should be organized.
This goes hand in hand with being responsible. The guy does not have to be extremely organized that he’s bordering on having a breakdown, but he should at least be a person who is orderly and keeps a planner. Lots of planning and organizing are to be done for your wedding and your best man should be there to help you keep your sanity by keeping things in order.
He should be confident and fun.
It is quite challenging to find a guy who’s responsible, organized, and fun at the same time but confidence and charm are equally necessary. Your best man will propose a toast and deliver a speech on the day of your wedding, and ideally he should also interact with many of the guests present at the wedding. He also plans for the bachelor party and drinks with you when you are getting tired of all the wedding preparation. So you see, the best man should be energetic and lively if you want this to be a fun experience for all of you.
You are lucky if you already have a guy who has all the qualities mentioned above. One difficult wedding decision is off your list. But if you still can’t choose your guy, don’t stress yourself too much. Remember, you can always appoint the rest of the guys to be your groomsmen and assign them tasks for your wedding.
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Your wedding is only days away and at long last you’re about to say goodbye to the hectic wedding preparation. That was a tough one, wasn’t it? You didn’t expect a simple wedding would still require so much planning, decision-making, and money. Fortunately, your good pals were there all the way to support you and perform small errands or else you wouldn’t have made it this far in the wedding preparation.
You are one lucky guy to have such wonderful friends!, and now, before you march down the aisle, you want to make them feel special by giving them small tokens of appreciation for all their effort and for the lifetime friendship. But you have one problem: you’re finances are running dry because of all the wedding expenses. Don’t worry! Here are some inexpensive groomsmen gift ideas that cost little but look great.
Personalized Groomsmen T-Shirt ($8-$15)
T-shirts are one of the most popular groomsmen gifts for the guys aged 17-30. For this gift to be extra special, you should personalize it. You should have it printed with a catchy message or caricature that reminds all of the guys of your friendship. Thinking of a good concept may take more time. You have to really sit down and take a trip down memory lane. It should be something that all of the recipients can relate to and find memorable. If your groomsmen are not that close to you, you can go for the more standard prints.
Mugs or Glasses ($15-$20)
There are a variety of unique mugs and glasses that you can give your guys. If they are the beer drinking bunch, give them large beer mugs with their names on them. This gift is a symbol of friendship and would definitely appeal to the guys. You can also give them sport mugs, pilsner glasses, shot glasses, coffee mugs, etc. You have to know each of your recipient’s lifestyle and drink of choice so you can give them something they will use for years to come.
Army Knives ($20- $25)
It is impossible for any guy not to treasure this item. It is useful, it is functional, and it is very easy to carry around. Have your groomsman’s name engraved on the army knife and it becomes a priceless possession. There are a variety of kinds to choose from like the standard pocket knife or the more sophisticated mult-tool. Some of them even come with a built-in flashlight.
Personalized Baseball Caps ($6- $10)
Every guy loves baseball! Whether they actually play the sport or they are loyal fans of the game, they would definitely like this item. This brings back childhood memories when everything was still so carefree and nothing else matters except winning the game. Aside from it being a sporty item, it is also very useful. Again, if you want it to be extra special, personalize the caps by printing their name or initials on them.
Notice anything common with all the items I have mentioned above? You got it- they are all personalized. That is the trick to increasing the value of any gift. It doesn’t matter how much you spend on your gifts, the more important thing is the thought you put in these gifts. Personalization is always an easy way to say thank you and show your appreciation.
Mike is an author for a variety of event-related gift ideas. For more information on groomsmen gifts you can visit vipgroomsmengifts.com and browse their selection. You can find personalized groomsmen gifts based on your budget.
You and your best man have known each other for so many years- he is the first one you call when your car breaks down, he is the one who goes with you when you’ve had a rough day and need to unwind, and now he’s here to assist you on the most important day of your adult life. Sometimes organizing big events can cause tension between you and your best man even if you are already very familiar with each other’s attitudes. Here are some tips that can lessen the chances of you guys having a conflict when preparing for your wedding:
Inform your best man the moment you have made the decision.
It is advisable to inform your best man that you have chosen him as soon as you’ve made your decision. Keep in mind that you are asking a busy guy to help you with major tasks for your big event. The best man’s job requires a lot of effort and time and is definitely not an easy task for anyone. When asking him to be your best man, do not sound too commanding. You are requesting for a big favor and it should be asked the way big favors should be asked- humbly. If he says yes, you are one lucky guy! Thank him right away and show your appreciation.
Have a meeting with your best man at least 3 months before the wedding.
Now that you have officially appointed your best man, it is time to get down to business. Set a date when the two of you can sit down and plan for the wedding preparations. This may take all afternoon so call your best man right away and ask him for his available schedule. Be prepared to discuss what you and your bride have planned so far and go into the details of each.
Be clear of the tasks you need assistance with
Tell your best man the areas where you need his help the most and ask him which of those he can assist you. Consider your best man’s lifestyle and schedule when assigning major tasks and deadlines. Ask him if he can commit himself to each of the tasks. It is important that he is honest so you would not have major problems later on. If he appears hesitant on one or two of the tasks, tell him it’s okay and that you’ll just do it on your own.
Come up with a detailed schedule and checklist of things to do- then stick to it.
After you’ve talked about who does which, it’s time to make a detailed schedule of the wedding preparation. Write down the tasks and set deadlines of each. Being clear and organized with the tasks and schedule saves your time and reduces stress. This is also the sure-fire way to avoid conflict since it makes everything clearer to both of you.
Update each other regularly but do not over communicate.
Like any other event, successful weddings are successful because of great communication. Call each other up to check for updates or when you have questions about certain tasks. Be careful and avoid over communicating or your friend would certainly feel more like an employee. You have known each other for a long time, so don’t let your friendship fall by the wayside. Hopefully by now you know some of the signs when he’s stressed. If you think he is, mellow down a little and go out for a relaxing night out.
Mike is an author for a variety of event-related gift ideas. For more information on best man gifts and groomsmen gift ideas you can visit vipgroomsmengifts.com and browse their selection. If your groomsmen like barware you can find custom beer steins which make great wedding attendant gifts.
Congratulations- you are finally getting married. I bet you are having a blast juggling your already busy schedule and the wedding preparations. Well, that’s all part of the package, mate. That is one thing that makes your wedding memorable. Trust me, you will miss the wedding preparation once it’s over so enjoy the process. Despite how hectic the wedding preparation gets, you should never ever forget to buy your groomsmen gifts. This is a rare opportunity for you to express your gratitude to the most wonderful guys in your life. For all the things you’ve been through, they all deserve a little thank you from you, don’t you think?
In choosing groomsmen gifts, the first thing to consider is their lifestyle. If you have a sporty, adventurous bunch, then you are lucky. Choosing groomsmen gifts would be much easier for you as there are plenty of sporty gift items available online. Whether the guys actually play sports or if they are just fans of sports and adventure, they would all love these items. When you add a personal touch to these items, they become priceless.
Personalized Baseball Cap
Baseball is the ultimate sport. Everyone has played it at least once in his life and almost all of us watch it on TV. If you think giving a baseball bat is too much, then this is the better alternative. It’s a statement of manliness and can be easily personalized. Another good thing about this is it’s functional and can be used every day. To add a personal touch, print your friend’s name or initials on it. Most places will do this for a nominal charge. Personalizing gifts make ordinary items extraordinary.
Personalized Sport Watch
This is one of the safest gifts to give your buds. You simply cannot go wrong with personalized watches. Aside from it being useful, it also adds subtle masculinity. There are sport watches with compasses and other trendy add-ons. It is up to you to gauge the taste of your groomsmen and suit the design of the watches according to their taste. To personalize the watches, have their initials engraved at the back of the watch. Most any jewelry store will do this for you.
Army Knife
This gift is for the guy who loves the outdoors. If your buds are into camping, hiking, fishing, and all those activities that require one to cut, eat, and pack, then this is the perfect item for them. Sure they may already have their own pocket knives, but a guy could never have too many. Plus, the one you can give is more special because it is a reminder of your friendship. Once again, the trick is to print or engrave something memorable on the item or on the carrying case.
Sporty Cufflinks
Make the guys look dapper at your big event. You can hardly recognize them now that they’re wearing stiff tuxedoes because all your life you’ve seen them wear only t-shirts and jeans. In order for them not to lose their old sporty selves, these cool sport cufflinks would complete their outfit. It can be hard to find sport cufflinks that you can have engraved, but you can always get the box engraved. Most places will offer a personalized box for a nominal fee.
Tickets to a Big Game
Of all the things I’ve mentioned above, this is definitely the best gift for the hardcore sport enthusiasts. No man would say no to this. The downside of this gift is that you have to know the schedules of your groomsmen beforehand therefore removing the surprise factor of the present. But if you really want this to be a surprise, you can have an arrangement with the booking office so your tickets would have flexible schedule. You can book and check for schedules of games online.
There are various online stores which specialize on groomsmen gifts. The items are selected and focused on groomsmen items so it would be easier for you to choose. The sporty groomsmen gifts I’ve provided can help you find just the right gift for the guys on your wedding day.
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Spring is right around the corner, and it is the perfect time to lighten up! If a spring wedding is in the forecast, now is the time to decide on the attire for the groom and other men in the wedding party. Take a look at these fresh ideas for spring wedding attire for men.
Formal evening weddings call for black tie, even in the spring. The traditional tuxedo does not allow a whole lot of room for personalization, but it is possible to add a little hint of spring to the ensemble. One of the easiest ways to do so is by selecting boutonierres in iconic spring flowers. A small spring of white lilies-of-the-valley would be both formal and springy. Or choose a diminutive spring bulb such as a mini daffodil or grape hyacinth for a bit more whimsy. These flowers are excellent additions to the bridal bouquets, so they are wonderful boutonierre options.
For daytime spring weddings, consider suits in light colors. A navy or black suit is handsome, to be sure, but can look a bit heavy on a beautiful spring day. Get into the spirit of the season with khaki suits for the groom and groomsmen. They look fresh and spring-like, and pair wonderfully with bridesmaid dresses in pastel colors. The neutral khaki color allows for infinite shirt and tie options. It can be very nice to choose a shirt which coordinates with the colors the bridesmaids will wear. Another idea is to use a blue or white shirt and pick up the wedding colors in the tie. Pastel colors like yellow and spring green look fantastic with khaki suits, as well.
Another nice spring wedding look is for the men to wear blazers with trousers rather than an entire suit. It is less stiff and formal, which is ideal for semi-formal weddings. The classic navy blazer is a can’t-miss, and can be worn in a variety of ways. Traditional brass buttons are nautical and conservative. Pair them with a striped tie and a nicely starched shirt. Or let the navy blazers be a little more understated by switching out brass buttons for plain navy ones that match the jacket (this is an incredibly easy alteration). A yellow shirt with a tiny check or a classic blue and white striped button down would be perfect with this outfit. As for the pants, they can be an all-season wool gabardine in a light color like tan or gray. If the wedding is really relaxed, cotton khakis would even work, as long as they are crisp and freshly pressed with a hint of starch.
Accessories make the man, just like they do the woman, so do not overlook their role in the mens’ wedding attire. If you are not using a boutonierre, a pocket square in a spring color will add a dash of color to their jackets. Cufflinks are another great accessory for the men in a wedding, and they make excellent groomsmen gifts. Silver cufflinks with an initial are one of the most popular groomsmen gifts, or select cufflinks which tie in with the theme of your wedding, such as small silver sailboats for a nautical wedding.
So you see, there are some great springtime attire options for the men in a wedding. It is not all the same old stuff that they wear all year long. Whether your wedding is formal, casual, or something in between, choosing wedding attire with a springy feeling will help the groomsmen and groom to look fresh and crisp.
Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, fashion, and etiquette. The friendly staff at http://silverlandjewelry.com/ is waiting to help you find the perfect groomsmen gifts for your wedding. All jewelry orders over $99 receive complimentary shipping.