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A new trend these days is that single UK women are looking for American men online. Why so? Many people say that they do this to show off to the pubic. They both want to show that they are dating a partner who is not from their country and culture and they are quiet different with one another. This may or may not be true. There are several UK women who want to understand more about the US living style. You can say that they want to copy each other’s life style. Interracial marriages are very common these days.

Are you always in the company of girls? Are you regularly getting text messages or emails from girls you barely knew? Do you often have strange ladies chatting you up in social settings?

If you don’t, then you may not be a very attractive women and if you want to be more attractive to them, then will have to work on being more attractive to the ladies.

So the first question to ask yourself what are the male traits that girls love and then work efficiently to acquire those attractive attributes for yourself. There is no magic bullet for this, just your willingness to transform yourself.

Girls simply adore guys who are witty and smart. These men present a picture of security and fun for the gentle sex. By smart, I don’t mean that you must have a Masters Degree of or the likes. Paper qualification does not necessary means that you are smart, it is only a measure that you know how to study and work hard for your qualification.

Being smart in this context means that you are well read and is able to carry conversations well in most subjects intelligently. This virtue indicates that you are a good well rounder. Being witty is also an indication of your intelligence. However, do watch out for the thin line between being witty and corny.

Women love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn’t, right? So by demonstrating your wittiness, you are showing her that you are a fun chap to be with and that you can make her smile and laugh. Who wants to be with a boring guy for the rest their life?

You must have heard about the phrase “cocky and funny”, haven’t you? Yes, women love cocky and funny guys. However, cockiness does not mean that you can be rude, offensive or arrogant. Taken in its proper context, cockiness here means being confident about yourself. Women simply cannot resist confident men because these men project an aura of security and alpha male leadership.

So do not look down or look away when you are talking to her. Hold the eye contact confidently and she will soon swoon over you. If you can make her laugh at the same time with your intelligent quips during the conversation, she will soon be very attracted to you.

Many dating gurus often state that women are not attracted by looks. I wish to clarify on that. Looks do play a very important part in the initial attraction. Otherwise, why do the girls scream in frenzy when in sight of those handsome movie stars or pop stars?

However, as I said, it is only the initial attraction. Although you need many other attractive male attributes to keep the girls hooked on you or if you want to establish a long term relationship, you will still need to look good. This is because you will have to meet the girls first, right? So if you dressed up shabbily, what will be her first impression of you and we all know that the first impression is very important, don’t we?

So read up some fashion magazines and buy the clothes and accessories that will make you look good. If you are overweight, then its about time that you slim down and if you are thin, then hit the gym and put on some muscles on your small frame.

If you are willing acquire all these attractive male attributes, you will naturally become a chick magnet and have the girls all over you.

Chris Chew is a relationship and health consultant. If you really want to be a girl magnet, then read Pick up lines and Attract girls pheromone perfume

Have you ever wondered why a woman you have recently been dating or chatting online and was interested in you suddenly stopped returning your calls, texts or emails? Is this scenario repeating itself in your experiences with women all the time? What went wrong? Have you made a terrible dating mistake?

One of the most common mistakes guys make when having initial contacts with women they like is to share too much information about themselves. Yes, it is good to come clean right from the start, but giving away too much specific information about yourself such as your job, your interests, your life and your dreams take away all the curiosity and mystery about you and women just get bored with you and do not find you interesting anymore.

Was that what you did with the girls? Did you tell them all about yourself so that you can honestly let them know who you are? If you did, don’t do that anymore. Your intention may be noble, but attraction with women just doesn’t work that way.

Girls are weird creatures. They get exasperated when guys dump all their personal information on them as if they are your computer personal archive. Oh, of course the girls will tell you that they want a man who can come clean and tell her everything about himself, but that is her logical mind speaking, not the emotional mind which is the source of attraction.

Women want men who can heighten their curiosity and make her want to know more about him. If you are a little mysterious, it will raise her sexual tension and attraction to you. If you let in too much details about yourself, you will only bore her and you can’t bore a woman into having an interest in you, can you?

So here is the secret as to how to get women interested in you. All you need to do is to only share information about yourself that is honest and revealing, but and here is a big BUT, incomplete information. In the mass media, advertising and marketing industries, this is called the “open bracket loop”.

Take for example when you are watching television and a trailer of a movie to be screened later is on, then at the very exciting part, an announcer cuts in and says, “Who is the serial killer who may visit your home tonight? Why is he in your neighborhood? Find out tonight at 9.30 in The Terror Lurks In Your Backyard.” That’s it, that trailer had just created your curiosity to watch the movie at 9.30 to find out what happened, didn’t it?

So here is how you can use this method in the dating world. Say anything that you will usually say about yourself revealing just a little bit and then change subject to some other trivial issues to banter about.

Take for example, if you are selling cars, just say something like, “My job is to go to different places everyday by taking chauffeur driven joyrides.” The chauffeur is of course your potential client test driving the car. After saying that, switch the subject to another topic and leave her hanging there wondering what kind of interesting job is that. Now that her curiosity is piqued, she will have to ask you for more information about your occupation. You will then come across to her as mysterious, fun and interesting.

So the answer to getting girls interested in you is say it without saying it. This will raise her sexual tension to another level and you can be sure that she will be thinking about you and what you do.

This method can also be applied to all other subjects about you such as about your family, your hobbies, places you have been, sports, social matters and other interests.

Chris Chew is a relationship and dating consultant. If you are serious about getting women interested in you, then read How to get women interested in you and How to make girls want you now.

The very idea of walking up to a beautiful woman or a group of girls whom you have never met before to start a conversation can be very a daunting and deeply petrifying for many men. However it can be very easy task if you know how to conquer your fears with women.

So why are guys so afraid of approaching women and chatting up with them? Well, there are a number of reasons and usually they are just self conjured imaginary fears.

Firstly, even before the approach begins, many men would have already scared themselves bonkers with the imaginations of getting rejected and shot down on the spot and in the process, making a downright fool of themselves. That is why guys squirm at the idea of approaching a strange woman.

Another reason could be that guys presume that girls will immediately think that they are trying to pick them up and will therefore put up a lot of resistance and making it difficult to start conversations. Furthermore, most men know that approaching women and befriending them successfully involve more than just simply the approach and opening lines. They are afraid of what comes after that and whether they can maintain the conversation or get tongue tied and in the process looking like a petrified clown.

As I said earlier, most of the time these are just imaginary fears. If you confidently approach women and is able to have good conversations with them, most girls will welcome you. Of course there will be some disappointments now and then, but what if you succeed most of the time, which is most likely the case?

So in order to be successful with girls, the first thing you need to do is to overcome any fear of approaching them. So how do you do that?

You can start by eliminating any thoughts of approaching women. This is because if you do, your mind chatter will conjure up imaginary problems, obstacles and difficulties along the way. So you need to nip the mental chatter at the bud, so much so that when you are actually approaching women, do not actively think about how you are going to get her number or email address or what you are going to talk about or what you are going to do. Let your instinct take over and let the meeting be free flowing. Things will just happen naturally when you are not thinking too much and getting all tensed up with so many thoughts or reservations.

Have utmost faith in yourself. You are approaching people and starting conversations everyday, aren’t you? You are taking calls and talking to strangers when at work or that your work entails you to approach clients and business associates, don’t they? So what is the big deal about approaching women and striking up conversations with them since it is already the norm in your life to do so?

If you can have fun and lively conversations with your male friends or even female colleagues, why can’t you have the same with girls whom you have just met? All you need to do is just to be a little laid back and being unconcerned with what the outcome of your approach and conversation will be.

This last bit may come as a surprise to you, but women really like it when guys approach them and bowl them over with their charm, confidence and humor. So approaching strange beautiful women may be much easier than you really think. Isn’t it about time you overcome and conquer your fears?

Chris Chew is a sought after fitness consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at How to approach girls with confidence and Attract girls human pheromone

This article will discuss the seduction skill of building rapport and bonding with girls you have just met in order to make them like you, sexually attracted to you and get them to feel as if they have just found the man of their dreams. Do you want to be that man?

Most guys know that it is rather hard to build some kind of rapport and bonding with a girl they have just met. I mean, you know almost nothing about this girl and she does not know you all that well either since the both of you have just met, so how can an emotional bonding be established given the awkward situation.

Well, here is something that you can do and that is to create an illusion that the bonding is already present. You see, bonding in general means building an affinity with another person based on the similarity of self expression and subjects of interest.

Think about it, people who have close bonding usually share common traits, interests, personality quirks, and ways of thinking or common objectives. In other words, the bonding increases when the two people have more similarity in personality traits or ideals. Birds of the same feather flock together because each can see a bit of himself in everyone else.

So how do you create bonding with a girl you have just met? Well, start building instant bonding by creating an air of familiarity and similarity. This may be new to you, but creating bonding is a huge factor in attracting women to you because a girl’s psyche is largely governed by her subconscious mind. So once a woman gets to bond with you, she will like you very much and will feel that you are someone she can trust and cherish. You will come across as a very sexy guy.

Here is how you can build sexual bonding with women. This seduction skill will involve both verbal and body language which can be honed to perfection with some practice.

Start with observing and listening to her tone and pace of voice and the try to match it when you speak. If her tone is more of a serious nature, then you follow accordingly. Listen to how she punctuates her words and sentences and you do likewise. The idea here is to make her hear and feel from the way you speak that the both of you have very much in common.

The next thing that you can do is to observe her gestures and mannerism when she speaks. Observe the way she tilts her head, touch her hair or clasp her hands and when she leans forward towards you or back. When it is your turn to speak, apply the same mannerism, tone of voice and even breathing that is similar to hers.

You see, if you look around at your closest friends, they all have the tendency to think, speak and behave alike. This is because over the years, old friends have adopted each other’s mannerisms through shared experiences.

Think of the times when you try to start a subject of conversation and your friends just simply joined in so very naturally on the subject matter or the times when you were humming a tune in your head and a good friend starts to whistle the same tune. Coincident? Certainly not.

The best part is that this mirroring technique is not only confined to the art of seduction in creating bonding with girls, but the technique is also used by great salesmen, politicians and public speakers to create bonding with people at large. That means that you can use this technique on anyone you want to establish bonding with.

Chris Chew is a sought after fitness and relationship consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Art of flirting seduction and Human pheromones sexual attraction

The title of this article is perhaps the most common thought in all full blooded single straight men. The good news is that it is not at all difficult to make women interested in you if you know how to. Attracting women is not the challenging part because there are methods that you can apply. Here are some ways you can attract women and get girls interested in you.

Firstly, you should know that when you make the attraction something that girls want, you will be successful. So the simple logic is to make yourself wanted and therefore it makes sense that you project right style and image about youself to make sure that women are interested in.

You can start with your fashion sense. Dress differently from most other men so that you stand out from the crowd for women to take notice of you. Your dress sense doesn’t have to be outrageous. Simply dressing nicely with good fashion sense and being clean cut will do the trick most of the time. If need be, put on some accessories like a wrist band or a nice cap will add an extra flavor and which can also be your own personal signature. In other words, you want women to take notice of you.

This may surprise some of you, but women kind of like guys who are a little flirty and naughty. I am not saying that you should talk dirty. Talking dirty is a turn off unless you already have very intimate relationship with the girls.

When you develop a flirty personality, you are actually sending signals to women that you are fun and exciting to be with. When you flirt, you are also telling the girl that you are interested in her subtlety without expressing so directly which may scare the girl away. This will attract the girl as long as you don’t overdo it. To get a girl interested in you, you need to be secretive with your flirting such as innocently touching her forearm when talking to her will give you a leg up.

Just like having a flirty personality, you also need to have a fun loving personality. By displaying this fun characteristic, you are in effect telling her that being with you will be fun and will have many fun fill activities with you. This is because most guys are all tensed up and nervous when talking to girls for the first time and especially to the girls they like. Women find that very boring and when they see someone that can be fun, such as yourself, they are magnetically drawn to you. So have fun and enjoy yourself when you are in the company of girls.

Just imagine what goes on in woman’s head when some “nice guy”, who is all tensed up and talk serious things with her? Yes, that’s right, “boooooring!” So the simple trick to get women interested in you is to get them to notice you and then flirt a little while having fun with them and pretty soon, you will become a natural chick magnet.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Make Women Like You and How To Have Sex Appeal With Women

Guys, let me ask you a simple question. To be attractive to women and to make the girls love you, you have to be sensitive to them, call them everyday to express your admiration for them, shower them with flowers and gifts and take them out to swanky romantic restaurants for candlelight dinners if you can afford it, right?

Wrong! You see, if you ask any girl what type of men they like to be their boyfriend, they will say more or less the same as in my question. If that is the case, then why do we see nice guys getting dumped all the time and the nonchalant guys who are somewhat insensitive to girls or some people may even call these guys jerks get all the girls?

If you have read my earlier articles, you will know that girls are not attracted to men by logic. Logically, they will want nice guys to bring them flowers who take them to fancy dinners or guys who pander up to them and whispering sweet nothings all the time.

However, in reality, women are governed by their instincts to find men who can give herself and her offspring security and survivability. In other words, they are attracted to the alpha male who is the confident leader of the pack and as such the real manly man.

So what is the alpha male and what makes them so attractive to the girls? Why do girls fall in love with these guys so easily? Well, to put it simply, they are the guys who do not or rarely do what other men do that was described above. These are the guys who do not usually call his girl, but have the girls calling him naturally. These are the same guys who rarely if ever buy their girlfriends presents and flowers and these are the guys who have girls falling all over for them. These are the alpha males who get all the girls where nice guys fail.

If you want to be attractive and successful to women, then you must pick up some of the characteristics of these guys. So why are alpha males so irresistibly attractive to women? The following are just some of the alpha male traits which you may wish to emulate.

One of the most basic reasons women are attracted to alpha males is the evolutionary instinct and that is the ability to stay alive and produce offspring. Women want babies and want the best genes to be passed on to them to ensure the survivability of the human race. Therefore, they are instinctively attracted to the manliest of the males to produce strong healthy babies.

This is one big reason why women are attracted to confident men and confidence is another alpha male trait. Women want to choose men who can protect them and their families from all the dangers of the world and it goes to say that low self-confident men may not meet up to the requirements of this department. On the other hand, men who knew their strength and took pride in their accomplishments will be the natural selection for this criterion, right?

This is why alpha males seem to have their pick of attractive women because so many attractive women want them and because of this, even more women are attracted to them because if so many women are attracted to this man, then he must be a good catch. You may think that that is an irrational thinking, then I did point out that a woman’s attraction to a man is not logical, didn’t I? Oh, how I love to emphasize this point.

There are many more desirable traits of the alpha male to be mentioned here. So if you want to be a chick magnet and have women climbing all over you and falling in love with you, don’t you think it is time to learn how to be an alpha male?

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Be A Confident And Attractive Man and Alpha Males Sexual Appeal

Do you know that about 70% of your communication comes through your body language instead of your words? This definitely means that body language do play a big part when it comes to flirting and seducing women.

You can say the most wonderful things, but if your body language is wrong, no woman will be attracted to you. So it is very important to pay careful attention to your body language instead of just thinking what to say.

If you just want to wax lyrical about yourself or her, then stay in internet chatrooms so that the other party can’t see your smiles, postures or eye contact except thru your emoticons or webcams. Even so, if both of you are interested in each other, sooner or later you will get to meet up, isn’t it? So here are some tips for you to polish up your seductive body language.

Nothing is more sexy and seductive than establishing eye contact. If you maintain eye contact, it shows that you are confident and girls find confident men irresistible.

So when talking to a woman you want to flirt and seduce, try to maintain eye contact. However, do gaze away and glimpse at other things now and then because too much eye contact can be rather intimidating.

Eye contact can make serious connections within people and as the saying goes, the eyes are a window to the soul. So maintain eye contact for about 60% of the duration of the conversation.

Now, don’t commit this big mistake by looking or worse, staring at her chest. Yes, I know guys are naturally attracted to what is there, and naturally the eyes tend to dart to her bosom. Don’t do it because it will make you look just like all the other guys. So resist the temptation.

You see, if she is very pretty and has a well endowed bosom, a lot of men cannot resist taking peeps there and she knows it. As such you will come across as a gentleman and not like all other lecherous men she knows.

Next, be generous with your smiles. No, don’t fake it as unnatural smiles can be very easily detected. Remember, girls are more intuitive than men.

You smile often to make her feel at ease and comfortable with you. You want to portray that you are a friendly and fun guy to be hanging around with especially when have just met her for the first time.

You also need to project the image of you as a confident man who is comfortable around women. A genuine smile is very effective in making the other party feel friendly towards you. Go on, try smiling at people randomly and you will be surprised by how many people actually smile back at you.

Check your posture. Psychologically, girls are attracted to men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the male movie and pop stars girls go crazy over and one very distinctive common feature these men have are their upright postures.

This is the alpha male posture which says that you are confident, healthy, and strong. Thus have a good posture is a very positive body language. Furthermore, a good posture is healthy to your back as well and takes the stress off your spine.

There are many more body language techniques you can use to flirt and seduce women, but these few will be good enough to begin with.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Using Body Language To Flirt And Seduce and Pheromone Sexually Attract Girls

We all know that alpha males are very attractive to women. They are like the leader of an animal pack where the females love and respect. In a civil society like ours, the alpha male is the leader that the others follow.

An alpha male, whether consciously or unconsciously understand what women want and are able to fulfill their desires. He knows the art of commanding women’s attention and is a master of seduction flirt. Therefore if you want to succeed with women, you should learn how to become an alpha male.

Becoming a girl magnet, you have to learn and master the art of seduction flirt such as using the correct body language, knowing the best conversation openers and being confident and relaxed around women. In other words, you must believe in yourself.

A true blue alpha male is not concerned with the opinions of other people about himself. He knows what he is doing and gets whatever he wants. He is full of energy, yet calm and confident and shows it in his aura. That is his magical allure with girls.

The more you believe you are the alpha male, the more you become one as believe in yourself is a magnificent attribute girls find irresistible. It may take some effort and time to learn and cultivate the habits, but it will come as you persistently do it often enough. Women become extremely submissive to the alpha male because these guys have gained the respect of women.

So the first thing you should do then is to display the body language of alpha males everywhere you go and in all situations. You don’t do this only in the presence of women because you want to let it become your nature.

So what is the body language do alpha males display to make them so attractive to women? Well, you can start with having a great posture. You may even want to enroll in a deportment class if you are weak in this department.

Next, be relaxed and confident as if you are in control of all situations. This shows that you have everything under controlled. Women love men who are confident and in controlled because it gives them a sense of security. That is why girls are in awe with alpha males. A picture paints a thousand words and that is why body language is so important.

Have complete confidence when you approach a woman and she will respond favorably to you. If you are hesitant or shy, girls will sense your vibes as women are much more intuitive than men. So if you are not confident in approaching her, you will be immediately be categorized in her mind as a beta male which is a weak wussy man who is not a “potential lover” material.

Women love men with a healthy sense of humor. So be a funny guy and have the confidence to hold peoples attention. When you do that, you are displaying your leadership quality subtlely and women can detect that and be impressed with you although they may not even know why.

So if you want to get the girls and leave the other guys far behind, then learn how to be an alpha male and you will be a natural chick magnet.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Become An Attractive Confident Man and Alpha Males Have More Sex

So you are attracted to this girl and want to know if the attraction is mutual. Yes, you want to know if she likes you in you before making the next move.

Well, first of all you need to know this fact. Most women will arrive at a decision whether consciously or unconsciously to file you in their mental category whether you are a “friend” or a “potential lover” within the first 3 or 4 minutes of meeting you. In other words, these first few minutes are crucial because once they categorized you as a “friend”, it can be quite difficult although not impossible to change her mind to make her think of you as a potential lover.

So if you want to make her like you or to know if she is interested in you, you must straightaway run low risk tests on her to find out whether she likes in you in the romantic way!

If she is, then there is no issue, but if she regards you as a friend, then your mission has just begun to change her mind. Now is the time to ask her out. Even if you think that she is not interested, you have nothing to lose but all to gain if you manage to have a successful date and her feelings for you may change.

You see, by asking her out, you are showing an interest in her. She will know that there is a possibility of you becoming a potential lover. So you have at least opened an opportunity for her to change her mind. Remember, girls are attracted to men by emotion and by not logic, so if your can make her “feel” that you care and want to develop the relationship further, you will have a higher chance of success with her.

Next, you should start flirting with her. Flirting is a game of testing each other’s interest. If you wish to know whether she is interested in you, then flirting will definitely let you find out. Hey, we all know that women test their men, so why can’t we do the same?

A girl will respond positively to your teasing and baiting if she is interested. If not, you will already know your answer and is time for a decision whether to continue or end the game.

There are many ways which you can flirt with women. The most effective is being a little laid back and be funny. You can tease her good humouredly to see her responses to your comments and body language.

So what are the body languages to look out for that signals her interest in you? To begin with, she is smiling frequently and laughing at your jokes. She holds eye contact with you when you are speaking.

While in the middle of the conversation, she strokes her hair or her cocktail glass up and down and her legs are pointing towards you. The one sure sign that definitely is an indication of her interest is when she begins to be touchy feely such as slapping your arms lightly when laughing.

Once you can detect all these signals, you can jolly well be sure that this girl already liked you in a romantic way and have already placed you in her “potential lover” file and the rest is up to you on where you want to take the relationship to.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Make Girls Fall In Love With You and How To Have More Sex Appeal