About Relationships

It’s a mixture of feelings and emotions as they go through a whirlwind of ups and downs swapping from excitement to fear, doubts and confidence and so on.

No matter who its with, you are always going to feel a tad awkward on the first date in a relationship, the following date is when you start digging up the dirt on each other so to speak and taking the step of getting to know everything about each other a step further.

However are there rules to how you should act and how you shouldn’t act when on a date?

Well I’m not sure over-calling, under-calling, laughing non-stop at terrible jokes, and under-dressing to posh restaurants are definitely things that would fail to impress when on the first couple of dates with your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Say that dating is a game for example. A game can’t be a game without rules can it? The rules need to be learned and put into practice in order for you to be in for a chance for winning. Do you want to win the dream girl on man? Well here are some definite do’s and drastic don’ts if you want to succeed in the world of dating.

- Always be very well groomed, looking your best. Being on time is crucial as I am afraid turning up fashionably late on a date simply looks unfashionably messy and not give the other person the best first impression in the world!

- Set out to have fun! If you come across as relaxed and like you are enjoying yourself this mood is contagious and the date will come alive as you continue to open up to each other, telling in-depth life stories and untold secrets.

- Remember to always tell your date how nice they look. This makes them feel good and flattering always pays off, especially towards the women as they spend so much time and effort on how they look so love tot be noticed

- Being both interesting and interested in your date is a fine balance to have. Be attentive, show that you are listening to what they are saying by asking follow up questions or when they are telling you about their hobbies but don’t be afraid to express personal views as this could be what makes you interesting and stand out to her or him.

- Don’t however call your date constantly when you have only just begun seeing them as this seems quite ‘stalkerish’ and can be quite daunting to the other person, turning them off instead on to your personality.

- Don’t lie but tell the truth when you are on a date. If you try to impress your date with a whole bunch of lies this is silly as it will not contribute to the relationship you are trying to build but hinder it. You can’t build a meaningful relationship on lies right? Plus the truth always comes out in the end. So avoid lying to impress and be yourself!

I hope this article has been helpful!

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Do you want to meet women? Lots of women? Well just like anything else worth having, it is worth working for. I would hazard that many guys out there are not in their best fighting shape, so to speak, to meet the woman of their dreams. They are so concerned with short term payoffs that they don’t realize while they are out the market, they could meet Mrs. Wonderful. Say you don’t have any interest in anything besides dating as many women as you can in your lifetime. Fine. You still need to do a little prep work to get where you can actually be successful in that. Here are the top five things you can do to help you meet either lots of women or that one special woman.

1. Exercise. I don’t care if you are the busiest career guy on the planet; you need to fit this into your life somewhere. I don’t care if you have to put a treadmill in your office and read briefs as you run, you need to do something. So I suggest find something to move your body: jog, run, join a gym or do an exercise video like P90x. You can improve your lot in the dating pool dramatically by improving your physical fitness. Even if you don’t lose weight or have no weight to lose, just being more physically fit can make a huge difference in how attractive you are to the opposite sex. Women will judge you more on your fitness than your good given portion of the handsome pie.

2. Eat right. If you can’t cook or have zero desire to cook, then at least make sure what you are putting in your body is as natural as possible and as healthy as possible. What you eat affects your skin, your hair, your energy level, the spark in your eyes, everything. If you are busy and rely on fast food restaurants, reconsider that habit. One terrific way to eat healthy on the go is to find a supermarket that makes fresh nigiri sushi every day. For a few bucks you can pick up some salmon nigiri for lunch. Salmon is one of the healthiest foods you can put in your body. The best idea though is to learn how to cook your own healthy food. It will save you money and someday impress the heck out of a girl.

3. Train your Brain. Make sure you aren’t coming home at night and slouching in front of the TV until bedtime. While it is OK to do this occasionally as an escape or way to decompress form the work week, do not do this every day. Instead, use your brain after work, too. Read a book. Find someone to play chess with online or in person. Take a class.

4. Air out your emotional baggage. Take this time when you aren’t dating to figure out what kind of emotional baggage you bring to a relationship and figure out how to let it go. If it is necessary, go to counseling to help you do this.

5. Make sure you are living your life as richly and fully as you can before you even think about going out to meet women. Spend your leisure time doing things you love.

Bill has been studying how to Pick Up Women for the last 5 years in NYC and is a PUA who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Get in Fighting Shape to Meet Women.

Do you want to be a chic magnet? It is not some secret mystery locked up in the Pandora’s Box. Learning how to be a chic magnet really boils down to a few tips. I have listed five here, but any of them could be interchangeable with other ideas. These are just a few ways I have seen it work for me and my friends.

1. Buy a cute puppy and walk it everywhere. I’ve seen it a million times. The most reserved or shy woman in the world will open up when there is a wiggling bundle of fur at her feet. If the big brawny Harley guy gets down on his knees to pet the dog and talk baby talk to it, you just know it will make women melt. I also think that when you have a cute dog, it really shows women a side of your personality, that you are nurturing, loving and affectionate. The combination is a sure winner.

2. Fake it until you make it. Practice exuding self confidence until it becomes natural. There is nothing sexier than a man who knows he is worth it. Sometimes the least attractive guy in the world will walk out the door with the most stunning woman. Why? Because he believed he was just as good as her. And you know what, she believed it, too. It is amazing how what you think of yourself influences what others think about you. Don’t ever underestimate the power of positive thinking. If you don’t have self esteem, make it your no. 1 goal right now to work on that.

3. Have so much fun with your friends when you are out, that you barely notice the women around you. Trust me, this one makes you irresistible. Plan a night out with the sole intention of having a good time. Truly, in your heart of hearts, be after one thing and one thing only when you go out: having fun with your friends. If you really are sincere in this goal, it will shine through and women will be captivated by your joie de vivre and ability to have fun without being dependent on a woman.

4. Flirt in a harmless, nonthreatening way with every female you meet. I’m talking the little old lady you open the door for at church and the cute redhead who works behind the desk at the bookstore. It doesn’t matter if it is a woman you want to date or your mother’s neighbor, flirt and appreciate things about them. When you do this all the time, you learn to truly appreciate women and all they have to offer outside of just a dating environment. It also becomes second nature to treat women this way and will be completely natural for you when you do come across a woman you want to date.

5. Be impeccably dressed and well groomed at all times. In college, women used to be absolutely intrigued by my friend Jack who wore a black tie nearly 24/7. I even saw once he had silk pajamas with a matching silk tie. Women loved it. He had such style and was always dressed to the nines.

Bill has been studying how to be a pick up artist for the last 5 years in NYC and can help you learn how to pick up women and how to get a girlfriend . The original article can be found here: How to Be a Chic Magnet.

What Makes a Man Irresistible?

This is the eternal question. Some men think you have to be a bad boy or jerk to attract women. Other men think you have to look like Brad Pitt or James Franco. And other men think you have to make a lot of money and have a really nice job and car.

I say you don’t need any of those things. Here are the top 5 things you need to be irresistible to women:

1. A good sense of humor. This doesn’t mean you are the class clown or the comedian at the party. It has nothing to do with how well you tell jokes. What this means is that you recognize when something is funny and are able to laugh at it. The best trait is the ability to laugh at yourself when the situation is warranted.

2. A healthy dose of self confidence. I’m not talking arrogance. I’m talking about natural self esteem. This means that you know there is nobody else out there who is unique like you and that even if you are not the richest, best looking man in the room, you definitely like yourself and have a lot to offer a woman in a relationship. Which leads me to number three:

3. You like yourself enough to have standards. This means that you have enough of that self confidence in no. 2 that you will not put up with anything less than stellar treatment. That means you are not going to stand for a woman who doesn’t treat you right. You have high standards for how you are treated in a relationship and have no qualms about walking away from a woman who can’t live up to them, not matter how beautiful and amazing she is.

4. You love life. Now this seems pretty vague and painted with a broad stroke and that is because it cannot be summed up in a nutshell. Loving life means you have taken the time to create a life that brings you joy. That joy cannot be found in how much money you have or what job you work because often those two things are out of our control. What we can control is how we spend the valuable hours of our life. So make sure you are spending all your time and energy on what you find is valuable and worthwhile and you will automatically find job and love of life. It is truly as easy as that.

5. You have respect for women. You don’t let other guys treat women poorly and you would never do that yourself. (See above where it talks about being a bad guy or jerk?) Men who are jerks only attract women with poor self esteem. It doesn’t matter how beautiful she may be on the outside, if she stays with a jerk then you can bet there is some major damage on the inside that you want to stay far, far away from.

So just as a recap, if you want to be irresistible, be confident, have a good sense of humor, take care of yourself and set high standards, create a life you love and respect women. It is that simple.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Want to be Irresistible?.

Do you really want to meet quality women and learn more about what amazing people women are? I have the perfect idea. I suggest you and your buddies sign up for a walk in support of something that affects women, such as a breast cancer walk or race. It will change your life.

It is a very, moving, touching and worthwhile experience. It is so important for men and women to get out there and help raise money for research to cure breast cancer. This disease affects one out of three women.

Even, if you are blessed enough to have never had someone in your life experience breast cancer, that doesn’t mean that you will not gain so much as a person by participating in one of these walks.

You will grow as a man and will come to a greater understanding of this disease. In addition, you will meet such quality women who are out there taking their time away from their lives for a cause that is bigger than them.

I think most men in this world are truly looking for a woman of substance and quality and any woman you meet at an event like this is sure to fit the bill.

In addition, you are showing that you are a man of substance and quality by taking your time to participate. You can meet women to date. You can meet women to be friends with and you can give of yourself and your time to a worthwhile cause.

You might even want to consider taking it a step further and volunteering to help at the races or walks. I can think of few ways to spend your time that are quite as valuable. By volunteering your time and energy to help organize something like this you are expanding your social circle as well, which always helps if you are looking for ways to meet women. You may leave the event with a whole new group of friends who may introduce you to other people and other worthwhile activities.

Really the bottom line is that events like this attract quality people. And we all want to meet and attract quality people into our lives, be it our friends or the women we date and so on.

I think this is a great way to meet women. But only if you go into it with your heart open and the ultimate goal being doing something good. If you go into it with the idea that you think it is a waste of time except for that maybe you might meet a hot chick, well women are going to see right through you. And frankly, I hope that none of you could be that callous. But if you go into this experience and look at it as a growth and learning experience and a way to give of yourself, then you will only benefit.

Women will see right through to your heart and you may leave there having met the woman of your dreams.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: A Way to Meet Women of Substance.

Being a single guy isn’t always sunshine and balloons. When you’re trying to meet women there can be complications. Especially if you lack confidence in your abilities to meet, attract, and date women. One of the topics that I’m frequently asked about is what kind of dating tips and advice for men can I give that deals with overcoming the fear of approaching women and talking to them successfully.

This is actually a very common problem. A lot of men are shy around women and lack the basic mind-set that’s needed to attract women. That’s what the following dating tips and advice for men is going to cover. I’ll go over some tips that you can use immediately to begin seeing results.

Commit To Success!

One of the best pieces of advice I can give is to prepare yourself both mentally and physically for the dating world. You need to commit yourself to success. This isn’t as hard as it sounds. It really just involves you evaluating what you need to change about yourself and then work on changing it. This could be as simple as getting some new clothes and a haircut or it could be more complicated like growing your confidence. Whatever it is you need to do you must do it in order to get what you want.

You can start small with your changes. Go out and buy some new clothes. Get a haircut from a stylist. Shave and clean under your fingernails. If you feel good about yourself and how you look it will show through and women will take notice.

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence!

Of all the dating tips and advice you will read you need to take this one the most serious. Having confidence is essential to dating the women you want to date. If you lack confidence then fake it until you have it. It’s not hard. Just visualize positive outcomes in your interactions with women. See yourself being successful and then play it out in real life. A confident man is really only a man who is satisfied with who he is. So if you lack confidence then you need to take a long look in the mirror and find what it is about yourself that you really like. Focus on that and keep that in mind when talking to women.

Be Realistic With Your Goals

When I’m asked for dating tips and advice for men I always end up talking about goals and what men should expect. What it all boils down to is that you need to be realistic. If you don’t look like a movie star then you’re probably not going to date women who do. That doesn’t mean you should feel like anyone is too good for you. If you have the desire and the will to go after women of that caliber then do it. Look at Donald Trump for goodness sake! But you will suffer less rejection and have a less difficult time in the dating world if you go after women with which you have a better chance at success with.

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I’m sure all of you guys — who are totally hip on researching how to woo the woman of your dreams – know where to take a woman on a date. But do you know where not to take a woman on a date? By doing an informal survey of all my good buddies, we’ve come up with the five worst places to go on a date. Drum roll, please:

1. Your ex-girlfriend’s work. I don’t care if she is a waitress at the hottest, trendiest, most hip delicious restaurant in town. Steer very clear of this place. I would even go so far as to suggest you find a spot as far across town from there as possible.

2. Your parent’s house. If anything can scare a woman away faster it is the psycho guy who wants to introduce you to his parents right away. Plus unless your parents are the coolest people on the planet, chances are that is the biggest turnoff you could find. Nothing squashes attraction more than mom squeezing in between you two on the couch to watch Wheel of Fortune.

3. Dinner at a restaurant. This is a no no for many reasons. Unless you are a couple and have been dating for months, avoid going out to dinner. Period. Here is why. Two reasons. One: it is outdated and old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody goes on dinner dates anymore. At least not when they are just beginning to date. Two: There is way too much pressure on a dinner date. The guy is pissed because he spends a lot of money on the girl and expects a return on his investment. The girl is pissed because he spent a lot of money on her and expects a return on his investment.

4. A movie. Again, this is a dud for a few reasons. Number one: Did you see #3 above? Going on a date to a movie when you’ve just met someone is outdated, old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody takes a date to the movies anymore. Other reasons: Number two: It is boring. It makes you appear boring and unoriginal and unable to think of anything better to do. Three: You have zero chance to talk and create rapport while you are watching a movie. Bad idea. The goal of a date is to create rapport and get to know one another by sharing yourself through conversation.

5. Going to listen to your best friend’s crappy band rehearse in some dingy warehouse that is freezing and where there is no seating and nothing to drink. OK, first off, your best friend’s band sucks. It might be different if you are best friends with Jason Mrz or Lady Gaga or something. Then, by all means take her to the damn rehearsal and she’s yours for life. Otherwise, pretty much anywhere you take her would be better than listening to bad music. Oh maybe, not, probably worse than band rehearsal would be a video game tournament at your friend’s house where everyone sits at different computers networked to each other.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Top 5 Worst Places to Go on a Date.

There is a myth out there that most beautiful women only want to date jerks. This is not true. What women want are some of the qualities that we perceive a jerk has and a nice guy doesn’t have.

In this article we will take a look at a few of these qualities.

We don’t want to be jerks. I would wager that the majority of men who want to meet women really are nice guys.

I would be so brave as to say that the majority of men who seek the services of a pick up artist do not want to learn the skills and techniques that will only allow them to meet women to use and abuse them.

I would even offer that most of the men are looking to bring quality women into their lives. This doesn’t mean that all of them are looking for girlfriends or wives – although many are – but that they are looking for companionship from women who will enrich their lives.

If you just want to meet women for unsavory reasons, then there are many other ways to do it.

The pick up artist community really exists to teach men how to be the best men they can. It teaches them skills that will make it easier for men to meet women.

So let’s take a look at what makes so-called jerks so attractive.

The first quality that guys who are considered jerks have is a bit of selfishness. If you are truly a jerk, then they have a ton of selfishness to the exclusion of compassion and concern for others. But if you are a nice guy, you still need to be a bit selfish to be attractive. You have to be always looking out for your own interests and needs otherwise you become a pushover, which is attractive to nobody.

So the first jerk quality you should emulate is taking care of yourself first to the exclusion of others. This does not being mean or cruel. It really entails setting boundaries so you are not being taken advantage of and so others know immediately have a spine and backbone.

For instance, that means having preferences and opinions and not being afraid to express them. No woman wants a pushover. And if she does, well trust me, you don’t want her.

Jerks know what they want and don’t want and don’t let other people push them around. You can adopt these traits without being a jerk. You can cultivate characteristics traditionally known as “jerk” qualities and still be a nice guy. In fact if you do so, you will outshine every so-called jerk or so-called nice guy around.

You don’t have to be a jerk to attract women. But you don’t want to be such a nice guy that you are spineless and a pushover. Either one of those are an anathema to women. You want to be the good guy who will care for her at the same time being the bad boy who will make her satisfied.

Bill has been teaching men how to text a girl for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Why Women Fall for Jerks.

Being with a gorgeous woman on a dinner date can be a deeply romantic occasion. As your love blossoms you will remember these occasions with pleasure, as will she. You should enjoy it as much as you can and be yourself. However, if you want to make the evening go even more smoothly then take note of these simple but effective tips. It doesn’t matter if the only meal out you have is a hamburger and fries, follow these five dating tips and you’ll come across like a connoisseur.

1) Guide her to the table

Take your time as you enter the restaurant and allow the waiting staff to do their job. However, when they lead you to the table, let your dating partner slip ahead and touch the small of her back with your open palm, gently guiding her to the table. It is a small sign of affection which shows that you are in control, but not controlling, feel protective of her, but aren’t being too pushy.

2) Smell the wine, don’t sip it

Ordering wine worries some people, so here’s the most reassuring dinner dating tip you can have – the restaurant’s house wine (usually the cheapest) should be perfectly ok! No decent restaurant will have a poor house wine if it wants to stay in business. When the waiter brings the bottle ask to try it, swirl it in the glass and give it a smell. This is what the real experts do and it should be enough to discover if it is a decent wine, so don’t bother sipping it.

3) Eat like a man

You don’t have to order bloody steak but it’ll do no harm, unless you are dating a vegetarian. Order big, order plenty and eat the lot. There’s nothing more off-putting to a women when dating than a bloke who eats less than she does. She’ll have more fun if she can relax and see you happily tucking in, so get that T-Bone and make it extra rare!

4) Let her take some of your food

A lot of women hate to appear glutinous and won’t want to order food which makes them appear to be greedy when dating a man. However, just because she’s ordered a salad it doesn’t mean she doesn’t fancy a bit of your steak. Some guys hate it when others take from their plate – get over it! For many women, sharing is caring. If she isn’t allowed to share your food, then don’t expect her to share anything else with you. The best advice is to offer her a bite after you have taken just one mouthful.

5) Be a gent and pay

We get so confused in the 21st century about how to settle the bill when dating, but whoever complains about receiving a free meal? Take the bill straight from the waiter and whip out the credit card. It shows you are generous, a good potential provider and you earn your own money – what’s unattractive about that? Of course, if she insists then this shouldn’t be the cause for an argument. Maybe suggest that she buys the after-meal drinks as a compromise. If she wants the date to continue after dinner then chances are she’s had a good time.

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So he’s asked you out to dinner, or perhaps you asked him? Either way this is a great chance to impress your date and have a really good time. Dating at a restaurant can make some people nervous, but you should put any worries to one side. Relax, have fun, and take note of these simple tips and he’ll be eating out of your hand, as well as whatever chef has prepared for you both.

1) Let him choose the restaurant.

If he wants to take you to a ‘nice little place he knows’ then by all means let him. It’ll be a surprise for you and the chances are he’s spent plenty of time thinking about it. Dating at a restaurant suggests he’s becoming increasingly interested in you, so here’s your chance to find out how he’s hoping to impress you. However, if when you arrive you are thinking ‘Why!?’ try to keep your thoughts to yourself. Lie if you have to, be kind, he’ll be crushed if you hammer his plans at this stage.

2) Be prepared to talk (let him eat).

The way to a man’s heart is indeed through his stomach. Hopefully he’ll be interested in talking to you, but also he’ll be looking forward to a good nosh. Indulge his desire for both and allow him to eat his food by adding your half to the conversation. He’ll be grateful if you don’t bombard him with questions and you don’t really want him to be talking with his mouth full. So feel free to chat away and let the poor boy have some food.

3) Caress the stem of the glass.

Show your tactile side by gently rubbing your hand up and down the stem of your wine glass before you take a sip. It’s a little suggestive but not over the top. Dating at a restaurant should be about filling his thoughts with desire, and that’s not just for the dessert menu.

4) Wipe his chin.

The mucky pup might spill some food down his chin and he wouldn’t be the first man not to notice. But you can’t be sitting there all night looking at a glob of soup resting in his goatee. If this happens, pick up your napkin and wipe the chap’s chin for him. It won’t be the first time a woman has done that for him, but other than that try not to behave like his mother – it’s too soon!

5) Let him pay.

Let’s presume you don’t fancy dating with a tight wad or your feminism isn’t so over-zealous that the idea of a man paying doesn’t appall you. If this is the case then by all means let him pay for the meal, you’ll feel a lot better about it – especially if you didn’t really enjoy your food! Most men have no problem in getting the bill and forking out the cash on a first date. You’ll also get a chance to sneak a look at his credit card – you never know – it might be a flash one.

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