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This email was sent in by one of our readers. I’ll try to answer it to the best of my abilities and hope it helps:

Dear Doreen,

Simply put I am an attractive married woman who is only now exploring her true sexuality. In college when the other girls were experimenting with each other, I was in a serious relationship with a guy. I was interested and curious but never found myself single and free to explore.

I married young and now 10 years later I am wondering what I missed. Growing up I always thought women were attractive but somehow talked myself out of looking at that feeling any deeper. I was attracted to men and felt like that was the natural choice, so I didn’t even feel the loss of anything until much later.

Now I am not so sure about what I feel. I was finding myself attracted to women more and more as time goes on, and less and less to men, namely my husband. I was pulling away from my husband because of these feelings.

My feelings about this became so intense that I finally had to talk to my husband about it. He was all gung ho to have me invite a friend of mine to bed with us so I could experience a woman and he could enjoy the whole thing. It was magical for me. I felt so close to her. More than I’ve felt for my husband. But right after things became very weird with my husband. He wanted to do it again and I didn’t. Not that I didn’t want to call her again, I just didn’t want him to be a part of it. It’s hard to even describe this. The weird thing is I really don’t think I want to end my marriage. I don’t really know what to do anymore. Do you have any advice for me?

Valerie

Ahh Valerie,

This is a subject I have thought long and hard about many times. You are certainly not alone. I want to go over a few things you said as I think I can make sense out of a lot of this for you.

Part of what is so unique about two women making love is the intimacy. It’s a very different kind of love making then the kind you have with a man. Even women as strangers on a one night stand share a bonding for that moment that most men will never know.

Our female intimacies begin early on. As young women we talked about kissing with each other in whispers and giggles privately in our bedrooms. We practiced in front of each other, on pillows and pictures. Sometimes we even practiced on each other. We watched each other, innocently. We grew into our sexuality with our friends, sharing details and secrets. It was all very special.

I am truly very sorry that you were in a committed relationship at college when you were young and should have been meeting many different people, dating all kinds of different young men and even exploring these healthy natural curiosities with other women your age.

Let this be a lesson for those of you out there reading this and wondering. College years are supposed to be formative. You’re supposed to be forming yourself. You can’t do that if you limit yourself. This is the time to reach out your hand and try.

Getting back to you, Valerie, I do applaud that you told your husband your interest. It’s wonderful that the two of you are close enough to share things like this. And, it is also completely common that it is no longer something you want to share with him. This is a very difficult realization for many married people. You want your spouse to be your best friend, you want them to understand all your needs and you want to be able to change and grow with them.

Unfortunately, it’s very rare that this is the case. You’ve now learned this. Your husband sounds like a completely healthy normal guy. He was a friend and a husband, he was also a bit of a classic horndog and leapt at the chance for a threesome. This is of course, as expected.

But now that some time has passed you are accepting the fact that even though he didn’t do anything wrong, it’s just not something you want to share with him again. You’re realizing that even though he’s your husband, and you do no want to end that arrangement, and even though he was able to accept your curiosity, it’s just something private. Something that is yours. And Valerie that’s OK. That’s normal too.

If you want to continue to be married, but you want to explore further this attraction you have for the ladies, it may be something you should consider exploring on your own. Privately.

The problem with this is the same as it is for any other married woman looking to date. You are not single. You have some explaining to do, and you have some precautions you need to take before you enjoy a rendezvous. Gee, wouldn’t it be smart for a married dating site to offer the option of married women seeking married women. That way you’d be safe to explore the beautiful sex you can have with a woman, without having to worry about her getting serious or learning you’re married. You’d have all the benefits a dating site designed for married people has to offer. ‘Talk about having your cake and eating it too.

There’s a funny old sitcom I’ve seen in rerun many times, where a certain female character is trying to convert a gay male character to come play for our team. After her attempt fails she explains in a funny scene to someone how she really only has access to the “equipment” a couple times a week. So how can she be expected to compete with people that enjoy full access to said equipment all the time.

The same is true for the ladies. Hey, we’re a little bit complicated down there. We have erogenous zones many men never even know about, let alone knowing how to find the little man in the row boat and pushing his little hat off. Your female lover will know things, will be able to do things…. that you really can’t expect a man to be able to do. The sex is amazing, and beautiful, and natural. Isn’t it?

Valerie I hope you’ve noticed I’ve never referred to you as a lesbian. I’m not suggesting you are one, but you may be wondering. My feeling on this is, what’s the difference. You’ve decided you do not want to end your marriage, so any label you decide to settle on is really a mute point. Please don’t get caught up in the titles of things. The important thing for you to know is that you are a healthy normal woman, and this urge to be with other women is something beautiful that I hope you’ll explore further.

If you find a married dating site that offers the option for married women to seek women, please write back and let me know. Until that portal exists, I’m afraid you’ll have to do the more awkward things to find women who’ll understand your situation and want to play safely and discreetly. I’d love to share it with my readers. Maybe the lady you and your husband shared that threeway experience with would want to rendezvous with you. Maybe you have some one else in mind. I say, go forth and enjoy!

Author Doreen Gray is an advice writer and editor.You can find more about having married affairs at Married Dating Guide.

Are you looking for ways on how to make a man love you?

It is a common thinking that love is ephemeral, so if you’re one of many fortunate ones to have found a real love then you definitely should really keep him. Keep in mind that everybody falls in love in his / her life – whether it’s a male or a female. The main difference lies in how they love.

And of course, women are meant to be more emotional and sentimental.

When in a romantic relationship, women will have this irritating thought that something may possibly go wrong. They’ve this kind of irritating thought of making the wonderful guy of her life to love her only but not someone else. Just like everything, you’ll find good and the bad in love and relationships as well. Therefore, how to make a man love you?

Here is a handful of useful tips to help you out:

1 – Be Vibrant

We realize that almost everything changes as time passes. Same happens with love, human relationships and human beings. You have to adapt yourself with the change. A stable relationship can be achievable if you are making your guy think that you’re willing to change based on his desires. You ought to enjoy the new experiences which come with the change. Your guy will certainly gladly notice that you’re doing this for him. You can do simple things such as moving into a new town with him. Possibly, you are able to pursue a course in the same town. This simple thing can make a guy love you more.

2 – Be Self-confident

This really is one personality in women that guys love. You shouldn’t be jealous if your man talks to his female friends and spends time with them. If you’re suspicious with regards to his actions, it might lead to an untrustworthy relationship, and that he may possibly find you less confident. Instead, don’t be concerned about his female friends. Your showing that you’re not jealous of his female friends could make you a magnet he will be drawn to.

3 – Accept Him the way in which He Is

We have to realize that no one on earth is perfect. Even your guy can have some imperfections as well as bad habits. Females have the habit of nagging their guy, which usually irritates them a lot. A smart lady is the one who accepts her man with all his imperfections. In order to make your guy love you, compliment him instead of annoy him. Using this method, he’ll truly feel better about himself and would like to love you more.

4 – Simply Say It To Him

How to make a man love you more? Words tend to be extremely effective, since you may already know and everyone likes appreciation. Guys often go weak in their knees in the event that their girls appreciate them. You need to tell him that he’s outstanding. Your love and words of flattery will certainly strengthen your relationship and develop his self-esteem as well as confidence.

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Halloween is one of the few opportunities of the year where you can show a woman that you have a fun, playful side and are not afraid to get in touch with your inner child. You can be serious the rest of the year, but this is the perfect opportunity to let lose a little and show another side of you to the woman you are dating. There are so many terrific date ideas this time of year, but I have listed a few of my personal favorites.

1. Take a little drive to the Pumpkin Patch. Bundle up in your scarves and mittens if needs be and pack a thermos of hot apple cider and take your girl to the pumpkin patch. There is something so romantic about being outside in the beautiful fall air and sharing a tradition that you had as a child. It also shows a childish, endearing side of both of you. Then, take her home and have fun carving Jack O Lanterns and roasting pumpkin seeds to eat with your hot toddy or glasses of red wine later.

2. Apple picking. A little like the Pumpkin Patch idea, but more activity involved. You are going to want to wear jeans and be prepared to work a little. It has all the appeal of being outdoors on a beautiful fall day and can end up involving lots of silliness and laughter. Take those apples home and impress your girl by baking up some apple crisp for dessert.

3. A costume party. You can find these at amusement parks, at malls, anywhere. There is always a fun costume part around Halloween. Some big cities have extravagant ones, including a racy one that San Francisco residents attend, but you could do something as simple as attend the one at your local community center. It is fun and a way to impress her with your cool costume.

4. Taking neighbors or nieces and nephews trick or treating. This is a great idea that shows your nurturing side and that you aren’t afraid to have fun and be childish in the right environment. Borrow a friend or neighbor’s kid or tag along with family members who have small kids. It is a fun way to get out of the normal, boring date night.

5. Passing out candy. Stay home, but dress up in a scary costume and go all out to decorate your house and yard so you can pass out candy. After the kids are gone, turn off the lights and listen to romantic music by the light of the jack-o-lanterns you have brought in from outside.

6. Go to a scary movie where she has to grab you and snuggle with you because she is afraid. Don’t go to a slasher, gory, scary movie, unless she has expressed an extreme interest in these, but do find something that is a little bit eerie, a little creepy. A good idea is to also rent something like an Alfred Hitchcock movie and cuddle up on the couch with a snuggly blanket and popcorn.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Best Halloween Dates.

Learning how to flirt with a woman successfully is not an easy thing to do. There are subtle techniques that you need to apply that can make all the difference in the world. Unfortunately most men don’t flirt very well and they end up coming across as creepy. In this article I’m going to go over the solutions that you need to know to turn any conversation you’re having with a woman into something much more. You need to learn how to flirt with a woman effectively and the following tips will show you how.

How You Speak

How you talk to a woman can make a huge difference. Think about it. Do you think she’s going to be interested in you if you talk like one of the Chipmunks? A high-pitched voice is not going to work. What you need to do is lower your voice, speak steadily, speak calmly, speak confidently, and maintain eye contact. You want to avoid being dramatic (as this comes off as cheesy). When you speak to a woman in this way it will build an attraction in a very positive way.

Turn The Tables

This is a nifty little trick you should master when learning how to flirt with a woman. If a woman asks an innocent question about something to do with her home such as “I just switched apartments” or “Do you know how to install spyware on a computer” say something like “Wow! You’re already trying to get me over to your place!” Women will think this is funny and 99% of the time they absolutely love it.

Spice Up The Conversation

This is one of the most important aspects for you to master when you learn how to flirt with a woman. You need to know how to avoid boring her to death with the same old cliched conversation pieces. Most men will ask a lot of questions such as “What do you do for a living?” or “Where are you from, originally?” or “What are you studying?” Women do not really care to answer these questions as they have already been asked them a MILLION times. You need to break the cycle and make your conversation mor interesting. When you approach a woman for the first time you want to use something that she’s doing or something interesting in the surrounding area as an ice-breaker. For instance, if someone around you is wearing a ridiculous outfit say to her “I’m not the fashion police but I’m thinking about making a citizen’s arrest on that guy/girl over there.” Then when she laughs introduce yourself, ask for her name, and then ask her a question about what she’s doing. This will allow her to talk and you to listen.

Relax And Have Fun

When you are learning how to flirt with a woman you need to know that being relaxed and happy can play a huge role in your success or failure. If you look nervous or upset (a lot of guys hate flirting with women and it shows) then women will see it and it will make the moment awkward. So you want to look like a person who enjoys life as a positive attitude will show the woman you are flirting with that you are a fun guy to be with.

These are just a few of the major points that you need to know when learning how to flirt with a woman. Once you’ve mastered them it will be much easier for you to find success.

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When you want to look attractive to women you’re going to need to make a commitment to do so. You can’t just put in a little effort and expect results. You need to put in a LOT of effort if you expect to really attract high quality women.

Your Commitment To Style

You wouldn’t go to a job interview in clothes you wear to the gym. Would you go to your job wearing old, dirty, and torn clothing? Would you wear a scuba diving suit to play in your local softball league? Would you wear your swimming shorts to a funeral? Of course you wouldn’t do any of these. So why would you go on a date without the proper clothing? Why would you want to go out and about to meet women without wearing the proper “uniform”?

The simple fact of the matter is that different activities will have different “uniforms”. If you want to l score a job at a job interview you’re going to have to prepare for it and this includes buying the right clothing. To look attractive to women is no different. If you want to look professional and appropriate for your job then you shop for the right suits or whatever clothing your job requires. If you are playing softball then you invest the proper time and money in finding the right clothes to wear on the softball field. The bottom line is that you need to wear clothing that is appropriate to the activity that you are engaged in.

Since you want to look attractive to women you need to invest the time and money in getting the right clothing for the job at hand. It’s very important that you look your best because every single interaction that you have with women will be a sort of job interview.

Women are very drawn to men who dress appropriately. If you wear a dirty old sweatshirt, torn jeans, and you haven’t showered that day then it’s going to be very hard to attract any women at all.

So what kind of clothes should you wear to look attractive to women? That’s a good question because each man is going to require a different style to accentuate his personality. It really depends on who you are and what message you want to send to women. If you’re a conservative type of guy and you want to attract that type of woman then you would want your clothing to reflect that. You also wouldn’t want to have a big, thick beard and wild hair.

The way you dress and present yourself is incredibly important in the whole attracting women game. First impressions are very important and if you don’t make a good first impression it’s very hard to overcome.

What makes a good first impression? The way you look, obviously. So you want to get some nice, new clothing, get a haircut,shave, clean under your fingernails (this is important and women do notice specific things like this), trim your nose hairs, and pluck your eyebrows. Now this may sound excessive but women WILL notice these things. If you have a thick uni-brow and visible nose hairs then forget attracting any women (at least until they get close enough to you to see it).

So when you want to look attractive to women you need to focus on your clothes and your hygiene first and foremost. When you do you will find that your success with women will skyrocket!

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Going out for dates may make you find the love of your life or your life-long partner. But sometimes dates can turn out to be a disgusting experience and you may just realize that you’re unnecessarily adding one more entry of hateful event in your diary. Do you think that will be worth undertaking to find your prince among the frogs? Well, you may say yes. But what about turning an unlikeable date into a gig of friendship? Your date may not be the one you wish to be your lover, but he can be your wish of a friend.

Making friends with your date is a great thing a mature lady can do. Being hasty over what you want to find isn’t always right. It may cause you to miss some important things that are there. It is not actually a waste of time; it conserves opportunities for friendship, that you may find later, are worth sticking to.

Here are some principles to keep in mind when going out for a date:

* Be on time- Ladies need not be early but they must be on time. Arriving on the exact time agreed upon shows that you have a word of honor and a quality of seriousness. In any appointment, time is of essence. Anyone who comes late disgusts the others and it only shows that you’re not interested at all. But if unavoidable circumstances occur, coming over even late may save his impression on you. Remember that you two are in the onset of knowing each other. Show your good sides but don’t feign a trait.

* Be courteous in your words- Words are important elements to weigh the kind of person in front of you. His words will prove what is on his mind and most of the times, his intentions. You too will be tested by the same. Be careful with the things that you say. Don’t criticize and don’t rudely interrupt. Don’t say things that you do not really mean. Be real without being rude.

* Be courteous in your actions- The person’s appearance will give you the first impression. Handsome or plain as he is, give him a warm smile of appreciation. Talk to him with ease and ask him some good questions. Pay attention to the words that he say and not his appearance when he talks. Conversation is a great way of knowing well each other.

* Appreciate his assets- Don’t flatter your date. This may make him think that you are overly interested on him. But in some instances, appreciate some of his assets. They may be his efforts of coming early, treating the food, or the great conversation you had.

* Thank him for his time- In any appointment, the person you’re meeting with must be thanked for the time spent. Whether you enjoyed or got bored, still say the words that you are thank you.

At the end of the date, you may make a sudden decision of turning down a possibility of you two being lovers but you never know the time. So, it is good to leave or start it with a friendship formed.

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I’m sure all of you guys — who are totally hip on researching how to woo the woman of your dreams – know where to take a woman on a date. But do you know where not to take a woman on a date? By doing an informal survey of all my good buddies, we’ve come up with the five worst places to go on a date. Drum roll, please:

1. Your ex-girlfriend’s work. I don’t care if she is a waitress at the hottest, trendiest, most hip delicious restaurant in town. Steer very clear of this place. I would even go so far as to suggest you find a spot as far across town from there as possible.

2. Your parent’s house. If anything can scare a woman away faster it is the psycho guy who wants to introduce you to his parents right away. Plus unless your parents are the coolest people on the planet, chances are that is the biggest turnoff you could find. Nothing squashes attraction more than mom squeezing in between you two on the couch to watch Wheel of Fortune.

3. Dinner at a restaurant. This is a no no for many reasons. Unless you are a couple and have been dating for months, avoid going out to dinner. Period. Here is why. Two reasons. One: it is outdated and old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody goes on dinner dates anymore. At least not when they are just beginning to date. Two: There is way too much pressure on a dinner date. The guy is pissed because he spends a lot of money on the girl and expects a return on his investment. The girl is pissed because he spent a lot of money on her and expects a return on his investment.

4. A movie. Again, this is a dud for a few reasons. Number one: Did you see #3 above? Going on a date to a movie when you’ve just met someone is outdated, old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody takes a date to the movies anymore. Other reasons: Number two: It is boring. It makes you appear boring and unoriginal and unable to think of anything better to do. Three: You have zero chance to talk and create rapport while you are watching a movie. Bad idea. The goal of a date is to create rapport and get to know one another by sharing yourself through conversation.

5. Going to listen to your best friend’s crappy band rehearse in some dingy warehouse that is freezing and where there is no seating and nothing to drink. OK, first off, your best friend’s band sucks. It might be different if you are best friends with Jason Mrz or Lady Gaga or something. Then, by all means take her to the damn rehearsal and she’s yours for life. Otherwise, pretty much anywhere you take her would be better than listening to bad music. Oh maybe, not, probably worse than band rehearsal would be a video game tournament at your friend’s house where everyone sits at different computers networked to each other.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Top 5 Worst Places to Go on a Date.

Being with a gorgeous woman on a dinner date can be a deeply romantic occasion. As your love blossoms you will remember these occasions with pleasure, as will she. You should enjoy it as much as you can and be yourself. However, if you want to make the evening go even more smoothly then take note of these simple but effective tips. It doesn’t matter if the only meal out you have is a hamburger and fries, follow these five dating tips and you’ll come across like a connoisseur.

1) Guide her to the table

Take your time as you enter the restaurant and allow the waiting staff to do their job. However, when they lead you to the table, let your dating partner slip ahead and touch the small of her back with your open palm, gently guiding her to the table. It is a small sign of affection which shows that you are in control, but not controlling, feel protective of her, but aren’t being too pushy.

2) Smell the wine, don’t sip it

Ordering wine worries some people, so here’s the most reassuring dinner dating tip you can have – the restaurant’s house wine (usually the cheapest) should be perfectly ok! No decent restaurant will have a poor house wine if it wants to stay in business. When the waiter brings the bottle ask to try it, swirl it in the glass and give it a smell. This is what the real experts do and it should be enough to discover if it is a decent wine, so don’t bother sipping it.

3) Eat like a man

You don’t have to order bloody steak but it’ll do no harm, unless you are dating a vegetarian. Order big, order plenty and eat the lot. There’s nothing more off-putting to a women when dating than a bloke who eats less than she does. She’ll have more fun if she can relax and see you happily tucking in, so get that T-Bone and make it extra rare!

4) Let her take some of your food

A lot of women hate to appear glutinous and won’t want to order food which makes them appear to be greedy when dating a man. However, just because she’s ordered a salad it doesn’t mean she doesn’t fancy a bit of your steak. Some guys hate it when others take from their plate – get over it! For many women, sharing is caring. If she isn’t allowed to share your food, then don’t expect her to share anything else with you. The best advice is to offer her a bite after you have taken just one mouthful.

5) Be a gent and pay

We get so confused in the 21st century about how to settle the bill when dating, but whoever complains about receiving a free meal? Take the bill straight from the waiter and whip out the credit card. It shows you are generous, a good potential provider and you earn your own money – what’s unattractive about that? Of course, if she insists then this shouldn’t be the cause for an argument. Maybe suggest that she buys the after-meal drinks as a compromise. If she wants the date to continue after dinner then chances are she’s had a good time.

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So he’s asked you out to dinner, or perhaps you asked him? Either way this is a great chance to impress your date and have a really good time. Dating at a restaurant can make some people nervous, but you should put any worries to one side. Relax, have fun, and take note of these simple tips and he’ll be eating out of your hand, as well as whatever chef has prepared for you both.

1) Let him choose the restaurant.

If he wants to take you to a ‘nice little place he knows’ then by all means let him. It’ll be a surprise for you and the chances are he’s spent plenty of time thinking about it. Dating at a restaurant suggests he’s becoming increasingly interested in you, so here’s your chance to find out how he’s hoping to impress you. However, if when you arrive you are thinking ‘Why!?’ try to keep your thoughts to yourself. Lie if you have to, be kind, he’ll be crushed if you hammer his plans at this stage.

2) Be prepared to talk (let him eat).

The way to a man’s heart is indeed through his stomach. Hopefully he’ll be interested in talking to you, but also he’ll be looking forward to a good nosh. Indulge his desire for both and allow him to eat his food by adding your half to the conversation. He’ll be grateful if you don’t bombard him with questions and you don’t really want him to be talking with his mouth full. So feel free to chat away and let the poor boy have some food.

3) Caress the stem of the glass.

Show your tactile side by gently rubbing your hand up and down the stem of your wine glass before you take a sip. It’s a little suggestive but not over the top. Dating at a restaurant should be about filling his thoughts with desire, and that’s not just for the dessert menu.

4) Wipe his chin.

The mucky pup might spill some food down his chin and he wouldn’t be the first man not to notice. But you can’t be sitting there all night looking at a glob of soup resting in his goatee. If this happens, pick up your napkin and wipe the chap’s chin for him. It won’t be the first time a woman has done that for him, but other than that try not to behave like his mother – it’s too soon!

5) Let him pay.

Let’s presume you don’t fancy dating with a tight wad or your feminism isn’t so over-zealous that the idea of a man paying doesn’t appall you. If this is the case then by all means let him pay for the meal, you’ll feel a lot better about it – especially if you didn’t really enjoy your food! Most men have no problem in getting the bill and forking out the cash on a first date. You’ll also get a chance to sneak a look at his credit card – you never know – it might be a flash one.

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She was totally hot and you got her phone number at the bar last night. But it has happened in the past where you have called her and she has flaked. Or you have set up a date and she doesn’t show. Or she ignores your text messages. This has happened to the best of us.

There are a few techniques you can learn that can help prevent a girl from flaking on you. The most important way to prevent flaking is to make sure that your interaction with the girl is rock solid before you leave her the first time.

The best pick up artists in the world will tell you that if you have a very short interaction – say five minutes long – the chances of the girl flaking on you are very high. Why? Because you had no chance to develop a relationship, to forge a bond, to let her qualify you. There was no time for any of these things to happen.

So the number one most important thing you can do to prevent a girl from flaking on you is to make sure when you meet her you have the very best interaction you can. You develop and forge a bond and you make sure there is a connection before you even think about asking for her number.

Now once you have done that there are a few ways to further prevent flaking. It is always a good idea for you to put your number in her phone to make sure the digits are the right ones. In addition, when you do this, put in a cute nickname or something that will catch her eye when you do text or call her. Otherwise, she will seem some blank number and not know who it is. So, first put your name in and then second, maybe use a cute nickname.

Another great technique is to call or text her right away. Make it a little game. Call and tell her about the cute girl you just met. This way you are ensuring that you each have the right phone numbers, but also you are somewhat getting that first phone call out of the way — getting that awkwardness over with while you can still have that first day chemistry.

As far as when you should first call or text her, advice on this is all over the board. Some guys say text her that same night. Other guys say don’t wait past one day, while some women will tell you it increases your value to wait three days because it shows you are a busy guy and leaves them wondering if you are or not interested. So on that one you are going to have to use your best judgment.

But if you want to decrease the possibility that you will have a girl flake on you remember that the most important thing you can do is make sure that initial interaction is rock solid. Then make sure you have the right number and that she knows it is you when you call.

Bill has been teaching men How To Text A Girl for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Prevent Flaking.