About Relationships

One thing that is really weird is that many single men spent more time fantasizing that they have a bevy of beautiful girlfriends rather than actually going out and start meeting the girls. I mean, if you are not positively out there doing anything to meet women, then how can you attract one, not to say the many you wish to meet?

So start going out more often as it is quite impossible to have any kind of a dating life if you stay at home most of the time crunching on some snacks in front of your TV screen. Look, your potential girlfriend is not going to walk out from your TV google box no matter how often and how hard you stare at it.

So, can you set aside at least one or two days per week to go to places where women hang out such as the library, book stores, shopping malls and even dance clubs? That isn’t too much to ask for, is it?

Next, you can learn a hobby which can give you the environment to meet more women. Something which you have an interest in as well as a hobby that many women will be interested in such as learning dancing, cooking classes, yoga lessons or even join your local gym to build a more attractively fit body.

My personal preference will be taking dancing lessons because there will be some touching involved and many other interactions with the girls such as discussing the dance moves. If you can find a hobby class where women outnumber men, then your chances of successfully meeting and dating the girls with skyrocket phenomenally.

Of course, before you go out and hit on the girls, you will have to improve on your look. Even if you are already good looking chap, why not make it better and be an even more handsome man? There are always something to improve on your appearance if you want to impress women. How about getting a new haircut to look neater, some new clothes to be more fashionable or an exercise regimen to look more handsome and attractive?

Do you know you can meet and make friends with women anytime of the day? This is because since you will leaving your house everyday, why don’t you start having casual conversations with any women while you are buying groceries, going for a walk in the park or strolling in your local shopping mall?

Your conversations don’t have to be long and well thought out. Just say a few words of greetings to see how things can proceed from there. Just make it a point to say “hi” to any women you meet in the course of the day and if she sends out a friendly response, you can then react and take it to another level with her.

Another good way of meeting and dating women is through dating sites or social networking sites such as facebook. Set up a good detailed profile of yourself and you do need a good picture of yourself to have any response. Then start sending messages out to women by asking them a question about themselves in a friendly way and wants to know them better. The questions should be something you noticed about her in her profile, so there can be a higher chance for the girls you have contacted to respond to your messages.

You should enjoy meeting women and it should be fun and you should not feel pressurized. If you feel pressured and is nervous, the girls will know and that is not cool!

So what are you waiting for. Logout of your computer right now and start going out to attract, meet and date beautiful girls!

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Attract Seduce And Flirt and How To Become More Handsome And Good Looking

There are a thousand and one ways of meeting girls. Guys who want to meet new girls for friendship or for any reason should look for girls in places where they always hang around.

Girls can be found in the library, supermarket, parking lot, restaurant, shops and similar places. They usually hang around in places where they can meet their friends and have fun. If you want to pick up girls in a surrounding that is generally friendly and harmless, then there is nowhere to go but the malls.

Malls are one of the in things to meet friends these days because of the convenience it offers to everyone. It is a one stop shop area for those who want to hang around or do some shopping. There are many girls in the mall including girls who work in the various shops or girls just hanging out or doing their thing.

Specific areas in the mall where one can pick up girls

Parking lot

The mall parking lot is a good place to pick up girls. It is the first place you go to when you go to a mall. Girls who are about to go shopping or hang inside the malls have to go the parking area first before getting inside. Those who are finished with their shopping will also have to go to the parking lot to get their cars.

Be decent when picking up girls especially in the parking lot as you may be mistaken for jack the ripper. Most girls avoid males who converse with them openly in parking lots despite not knowing them. If you want to be taken seriously, try pick up lines that would not offend girls. Look for ways to comment on her car. If you are lucky and you are observant, you can tell her she forgot to put off her light or any similar lines.

Supermarket

The supermarket is the most likely place where you can pick up girls. On weekends, you can go there anytime you like because single girls generally buy their groceries during weekends. You can also visit the mall supermarket during weekdays, particularly during lunch breaks. This might be a little awkward since girls usually hang out with friends and you just have to be smart enough to get past her friends and get to know her name and contact number.

You can hit two birds at the same and make your girl hunting less obvious by buying some groceries yourself. Girls like men who know how to cook and you can always use your cooking skills to impress them. Or if you are not a good cook, then you can use it by asking the girl next to you about the other things that you should buy if you want to cook pasta. A good conversation can start from their and who knows, you might get so lucky and get to take her home for dinner.

Food court

You will surely meet girls in the food court or other restaurant inside the mall. The ideal time to meet them is during lunch time as they are sure to go there by themselves or with some friends to take a bite. Food courts are generally filled with people during these hours so why not share a table with a friendly gal or two? You can start a conversation while eating lunch. This would be advantageous for you since girls will think it safe and natural to talk to whomever they are breaking bread with.

Bookstore

If you love books then go to the mall bookstore and try to pick up not just a book but also a girl. Girls love going to bookstores if only to buy pens, trinkets, pocketbooks, notebooks and other things. You can browse over some books and start a conversation with a girl near you who is also looking at the same kind of books.

If you see a girl browsing over a paperback of Dan Brown’s Da Vinci Code or any other author, then you can tell her how interesting the book is and how it has kept you up in one night.

Coffee shop

Girls go to coffee shops not just for their specialty coffee but to be seen. Girls hang out at coffee shops like Starbucks and Seattle’s Best to hang around with their friends and also to meet new friends. This might be an opportune time not only to drink coffee but also to pick up girls.

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Getting into a relationship is like baking. The recipes are prepared, baking instructions at hand, and the first attempt begins. However, it did not turn out exactly as what is expected out of the whole baking experience so there’s a second attempt. Recipes are carefully selected, steps to baking are learned by heart, and the second trial happens. Still, it is not as good as it can be, but surely better than the first. The third experience is easier but there’s more hesitation. It could be that the feeling of insecurity and disappointment is more prominent than the longing for the cake.

Decisions of the heart are sometimes the most difficult to make. It is nightmare for some and definitely not a bed of roses for the others but still they find ways on how to make things easier to live with. The problem with some is that they judge other people based from their past bitter experiences.

Falling in love, getting hurt then loving again is a cycle as well. People learn from past mistakes and these shortcomings are used as guidelines on how to try to perfect the next relationship. For some, recovering from a break up or marriage separation is easy, but there are some who find it hard to get by and what keeps them from moving on are the memories they carry with them.

Such memories are what others know as emotional baggage. The pieces and small bits of the past linger on. They are like packed winter clothing and personal effects taken into a trip in Hawaii, not needed but the person can’t get away without them.

But what specifically are samples of emotional baggage?

- Old pictures of being together

- Tell tale stories that is played over and over again

- Common friends

- Places that could be a reminder of the person

- Songs that make them cry

- Communication with the other person’s family

- Gifts from the other person

- Self-pity (nobody will love them again, she’s not worth it, falling in love will mean getting hurt again)

These things smash up the remaining confidence and strength of a person who has been hurt from the past relationship. Dreams have been torn apart the world stopped evolving for sometime. The hope of getting back together with the person who caused the pain is normal, but never helpful. It will not lead a love life that is longed for and not successfully attained from the previous relationship. This is the time when it is so good to remind the person that his or her world could have evolved in him or her, but remember he or she is not the whole world. There is so much to experience out there and his/hers is just a part of the most promising things that is yet to come.

Love can mean kissing different frogs along the way. Five to six month is enough to sulk over a break up. Loss of self-esteem is the alarm clock. Once this sounds, there should not be a snooze button, rather, get up and bring one’s-self together back. Start eliminating broken memories by throwing or burning pictures, gifts or anything that is a reminder of the past. Cut all communication with his or her family members in the most civil way. Because if this is continued, there can never be peace of mind. Show friends that everything is all right now. This will keep them from mentioning the past in the most awkward moments. And last but most importantly, get that confidence oozing again.

Use the past as a challenge and a stepping-stone instead of a barrier to a happier next relationship. Learn to laugh again, hey! It’s all part of growing up. Be happy for what happened as this makes a person more mature and perked up. Move on and start making plans for the future again. It may not be a totally different plan, just a new way of reorganizing the ways to keep dreams come true.

Put every emotional baggage out of the closet, out of the bag, and out life. Start picking up the pieces and be ready to meet the frogs again.

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History and mythology have both proven that there is more than an ounce of truth in the saying that behind every successful man is a woman. Heck, some of the women were even greater than their men.

Discounting the battle of the sexes, there are a lot of successful women today who are looking for men who do not always come to their aid but who would ask for their help sometimes. Men who are not always like knights in glinting raiment. In short, dumbbells in distress. And often times, to check whether a man suits a woman’s taste, she tests the man. To pass this test, here are ways on how to be a challenge to women.

There are ways to be a challenge to women. Here are dos and don’ts that a man should remember to exude that air of mystery that so hook the ladies and keep them coming back for more.

1) Let the electronic lines rest. Calling and sending a text message, instant message or e-mail too soon or too frequently would make a woman think a man has got nothing else on his mind but sex and nothing better to do than pursue women. A man should wait it out before attempting any of these things. Timing is crucial; most of the time, it is everything.

2) Be a ball of mystery. It would be to a man’s advantage to keep a woman guessing. He should not divulge information on his family, relationship history, or salary outright or willingly. Instead, these bits should be revealed only in trickles and in a gradual manner because they keep a woman interested. Tell her too soon and, without anything else to uncover, she is immediately bored and will want to move on to the next man she could unravel the secrets of.

3) Avoid the Talk. Generally, men do not like talking about their feelings. They dread any kind of confrontations that begin with “Let’s talk.” While this frustrates girls, they may also subliminally like it. Because if a man starts to share too much, he would start sounding like a girl. That is a no-no. In place of words, he should put in gestures. Like snuggling in bed after the deed. Most of the time men cannot help but fall asleep right afterward. This is forgivable to women, but only if the men make up for it by making breakfast in bed the morning after.

4) Answer her declaration with a kiss. Women hate it when they say “I love you” and they do not hear it back. A man who genuinely loves a woman does not have to keep himself from answering in the affirmative, but sometimes a kiss is a better response than “I love you, too.” This works for men who are not sure of their feelings yet. But it sure will make a woman think–or cry, fight or break up with the man. This is the perfect opportunity for a makeup kiss.

5) Show an ugly side. It is a known fact that dating is a period when one puts his/her best foot forward. For a man, though, it would not be entirely detrimental if he showed some of his imperfections. Flaws make a girl sit up and want to change her guy. This makeover project should keep her busy.

5) Come to her rescue but do not patronize her. Girls cannot do all kinds of household chores. A man would do well to act like a carpenter/plumber/cable guy who can fix everything that needs fixing in her place. But he should never, never make her feel inadequate or weaker.

6) Surprise her with your wit and skill. It is perfectly okay for men to act dumb sometimes, although never for a prolonged period. A man should assure a woman that beneath that bulk is some brains. For example, a man should not hesitate to ask for directions when they are going out of town. However, he should know how to put up a tent, build a fire, and find their way back without getting lost. Also, a man who knows some random trivia can prove intriguing and entertaining to a girl.

7) Have big dreams. Forward-thinkers are a babe magnet. Self-made men are infinitely attractive to women. A woman feels secure when she knows her man has drive and ambition because it means he could take care of her and their kids, if ever. He should share some plans, but he should keep enough to himself so she will want to stick around and discover each one for an exciting possible future together. This challenge does not only exit on the man’s part but also the woman’s; it goes both ways.

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You may find several articles in the internet telling you the do’s and don’ts on how to get a girlfriend. And being the guy who, let’s face it, desperately wants to have one, you have read through these self-help guides and you may have even bought an e-book about it.

These so-called “tips and tricks” are all well and good to read. But what most of these articles fail to realize is that talking about the solution is a whole lot different than doing the actual suggestion. Let us uncover how to actually use some of the known ways suggested by most how to get a girlfriend articles to lead to tangible fruition.

-Be yourself – This suggestion is not only used in such instances, it is also regurgitated in books that offer help from landing a job, to running in politics. However, in reality, you can never be your self immediately in front of a woman you are trying to attract. You do not hash out your crazy side of say, liking to turn cute little animals into cute little kitchen appliances immediately. You have to ease the crazy in little by little.

-Be confident – But how can you be confident if she makes your palms all sweaty and her beauty is so surreal, you get tongue tied? This is where a charming honest quip will come in handy. Say you are trying to be all manly confident and then you mess up by saying something incredibly dumb? Just laugh it out and say that she makes you so nervous because of her pretty eyes. It may be a dorky move but it is a pretty nice save on your part. It will also make her laugh which is another plus.

-Be funny – This maybe easy for guys like Chris Rock or Jim Carrey but for an average Joe, this suggestion may lead to an awkward “knock, knock” joke. At most, try to slip in some dry and witty observations that you think are interesting. Who knows, you might make her crack a smile or two.

-Be interesting – This is a very unhelpful suggestion, especially if it contradicts with the first one, “be yourself”. If you are as interesting as a piece of dry bread that even a bum on the street won’t dare nibble on, then try focusing the conversation more on her. This will give you the chance to cover up your oh-so-boring life and you will get to know a great deal about her in the end. Now if she ends up leading a life as interesting as yours, then throw in a comment like “well, aren’t we two peas in a pod?” or something like that.

In actuality, all self help books on how to get a girlfriend are right theoretically. But getting them from print to real life is where it gets really hard. A quick rule of thumb in order to make the most out of such “tips,” always think of how this will play on the field to let you know what you will actually do come game time.

Bobby Roberts has been giving tips to guys on how to get a girlfriend easily. This is to prevent painful rejection from any women they want. Readers can also read his review about the DoubleYourDating eBook.

You may think to yourself, it’s unbelievable that you do not know how to attract women and that you are still single now. You know you are not ugly. In fact, some say that you are charming. Well, given that it was your Aunt Hilda and Uncle Barney who said that and they are, by blood-duty, forced to say nice things to you, don’t you think they will go as far as lie to your face? You also know that you have a great character. There is nothing weird about you that can lead people to think they should stay away from you if they want to live. But why can’t you seem to get the interest of that girl in your office or that barista in your favorite coffee shop? Here are some of the easiest tips and tricks to get her look your way, or even more.

1. Look presentable. Think of it this way, you may just be walking out of the door to throw the trash but you never know if that cute neighbor of yours is looking. So before stepping out of your door, brush that mess of a hair and please, put on some pants.

2. Smell nice. Some men think that buying that cheap men’s cologne over at Rite Aid is the answer on the question how to attract women. No, fact of the matter is, so long as you smell clean and that your nails do not have dirt in them, then you are all set.

3. Have an air of confidence in you. And by confident, this does not mean arrogant. Say what you do proudly, walk tall and when you talk to people, never use a twitchy voice. If you do end up stuttering, talk slower and modulate your voice. This helps you sound more confident.

4. Be a gentleman. Offer to carry some of her load if ever she passes by your area and she seems to be hauling an entire kitchen showcase. Most women may exude the aura of independence but lending a hand is not a bad gesture to be remembered by.

5. Find the courage to get to know her more. Say you are lucky enough to ride the elevator with her. Work up the courage to open your mouth to say a simple greeting, like “Hi,” or “Good Morning.”

6. Act like you know your manners. If you show her your barbaric ways, like shouting at the valet or getting really worked up with the cleaning lady in your office, then this shows some nasty behavior that most women do not want to undergo through.

These 6 how to attract women tips are very effective because they are tested and tried ways on how women start to get interested. Try applying them even just for 4 weeks and see how much you’ve improved your chances in attracting the ladies. Who knows, you may even finally get the attention of that childhood sweetheart you have been pining for since forever.

Bobby Roberts has been giving tips to guys on how to get women easily. This is to prevent painful rejection from any women they want. Readers can also read his review about the GuyGetsGirl eBook.